R u put off by the stetchmarks ur partner has from havin ur baby? or does it make her sexier cos u made them? IM AWFUL UPSET COS I WAS THIN TILL I HAD MY 2 AND NOW MY BELLY IS PAPER THIN AND STRETCHMARKED
2006-09-23 14:32:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Stretch marks are a sign of the whole process a woman goes through to produce a baby through the miracle of conception & birth. They only serve to enhance how I feel about the mother of my child & therefore bring me closer to her. She didn't put herself through the process just for the baby, but for me too. I have NEVER felt put off by another woman's stretchmarks either. It's something to be celebrated, not worried about! :o)
2006-09-23 15:01:53 · answer #1 · answered by Mark K 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I have bad stretch marks from my son who is almost four, they're on my hips, thighs, tummy (belly button down) and quite thick. I split with my sons father when he was 6months old as he was violent and since then have a had a couple of men all of which have never had a problem with my stretchmarks. The first guy i went after my ex i was so nervous of showing him, in the end i just told him and he didnt get what the problem was, he hardly noticed them (and trust me they're not small!) my partner who i am with now thinks im really sexy, even when i dont feel it he says he loves me just the way i am. Hes never had a problem with my marks, hes never mentioned them, if i joke about my 'tiger stripes' he just says that they make me even sexier and womanly!
Id really not worry, i never thought a guy would ever want to come near me, but in four years theyr really faded my tummy is wrinkly and i have no boobs! Im only 23 yet guys seem to find me attractive, i now dont care who sees the marks, im proud of them!
2006-09-24 04:41:01 · answer #2 · answered by emma b 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not a guy but i'm in the same boat stretch marks everywhere and stretched skin from my three. My husband told me that he doesn't look at those things as a negative they actually make me sexier because of what they're from. Most of the guys i know (IF they aren't complete pricks) really don't care they pay more attention to the personality then anything
2006-09-23 21:38:47 · answer #3 · answered by K C 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
This is a great question and its had some really positive replys there may be hope for me yet. My stomach is teriible (& thighs and boobs what there is of them) but reading these replys have made my day thanx for asking the question.
And thanx those that have said the "right things"
2006-09-24 11:37:07 · answer #4 · answered by Carly T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a real man who loves his woman would never be put off by somting so trivial after all it is the inner person that counts not the outer shell
2006-09-24 05:42:06 · answer #5 · answered by shadds 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you put off by your partner's spare tyre? We all wear as we get older. If he looks at you differently, buy him a mirror ;-)
2006-09-26 10:12:54 · answer #6 · answered by david g 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
id bang the **** of my ex given half the chance and shes 5 months pregnant and must have stretch marks. not that ill ever see them though....baby and all
2006-09-23 23:31:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont think men really care if they have made u pregnant then they should have come to accept your body no matter what now
2006-09-24 15:00:21 · answer #8 · answered by haha_islaughing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is terrible, but a "real man" wouldn't be putoff by that at all, just rember that you are buetifull even if he can't see that...
2006-09-23 21:41:54 · answer #9 · answered by jam1577 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
think it depends on the whole package and not just one part of it....dont worry about it just go for it
2006-09-23 21:42:11 · answer #10 · answered by duklaprm 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋