My friend is goin out with this guy that i have the biggest crush on!!! last nite, we went to the movies, and i didn't want to hit on him or anythin cuzz i wouldn't do that to my friend, but then he starting flirting with me and huggin me and stuff!! him and my friend don't ever talk, and all my friends say he flirts w/ me and stuff, but i don't kno wat to do!?!?! if him and my friend break up should i go out with him, i don't want my friend to think i tried to break them up!!! help!! i'm so confused!!!
2006-09-23 14:19:21 · 7 answers · asked by luvin_life 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only if you dont want to be friends with the girl...No matter what you say or do she will still blame you...
2006-09-23 15:08:47 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it, he's dating your best friend and flirting with you. OK, so they break up and then he becomes your B/F, then he starts flirting with someone else. Then what? Oh, I know, he won't do it to you, he just did it to your best friend.
I think this guy is going to hurt you and your friend. He's a player, out to get as much as he can, with no consideration for any ones feelings but his own. It's called being self centered and selfish. Move on , this is a bad person. Your friend will find our soon enough. You keep on with him and your friend will hate you, then when he dumps you, you will be all alone, you lose!!!!
2006-09-23 14:28:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it does all depend on the relationship with your friend. If your friend and this guy break up maybe you should ask her if you can go out with him, and if she doesn't like the idea you have a decision to make is it this guy or your friend?
2006-09-23 14:29:07 · answer #3 · answered by Katie bug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends if you and your friend are close, and did she know that you had a crush on him before she started dating him, b/c if she did she shouldn't get mad b/c she knew that it might happen.
2006-09-23 14:25:20 · answer #4 · answered by angelfire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think maybe you should wait a little bit if they break up or something and after a while ask him out....and i hope the best for you.....
2006-09-23 14:23:13 · answer #5 · answered by Mattyboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your relationship w/your friend if you're close then don't do it.....
2006-09-23 14:21:14 · answer #6 · answered by cub6ib9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not bother! if he would do this to your friend he would end up doing it to you!!! he has no respect for himself , your friend or you! big time loser! don't stoop to his level.
2006-09-23 14:25:41 · answer #7 · answered by CRYSTAL V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋