I'm going to hang out with this girl tonight, and I think we might have a thing. I'm not really afraid of what she will think of me, more of the state of mind that buying some condoms would put me in. Would it make me be more expecting of sex? And if sex does happen, won't it be strange if I just happen to have a condom? I don't want to presume anything, yet I want to be prepared. Any advice?
2006-09-23 14:18:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you guys suck. None of you have actually answered my question. Just forget it.
2006-09-23 14:25:55 · update #1
Come on! "Can't get a girl's mouth pregnant" is gold! I get a thumbs down for being honest? Dude, if you're worried about expecting sex due to your choice of birth control, then you obviously are too immature to be having sexual intercourse in the first place. I would hate for your seed to be spread, causing the creation of more incompetent dotards.
Sex more than likely will not happen, because you probably couldn't even find your piece to put a rubber on. Here's a hint: it's the thing hanging between your legs that you usually piss out of. Speaking of urinating, do you sit or stand? My guess would be sit.
Grow a set, bring a rubber, and give this chick the least satisfying 3 seconds (and inches) of her life. Good going, Nancy.
2006-09-23 14:25:10 · answer #1 · answered by Rich_Nice raped my mom 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's not presumptuous, it shows you are responsible and prepared. It definitely won't be strange that you just "happen" to have a condom; it's normal. Lots of guys carry them around all the time as a matter of course. I don't know it will make you more likely to expect sex, but you should remind yourself that nobody is obligated to have sex just because one of them brought a condom.
My advice is, bring a packet of condoms with you, but don't assume that means you're going to have sex. It's just in case.
Did I answer all your questions?
2006-09-23 21:32:24 · answer #2 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you are already expecting sex, but buying a pack of condoms may or may not make you expect sex. It's different for everyone. For me, I see it like I see buying a pack of ciggirettes. I would say go buy some and be prepared...it kinda ruins the mood when you have to run down the street to buy condoms. I know a lot of people who keep one in their wallet (even though that damages the condom and increases the risk of failure.)
2006-09-25 15:44:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have condoms on you regardless. It's always better to be safe than sorry. What if you don't have any and end up having sex anyway? Are you prepared to face the consequences of irresponsible actions? Besides getting her pregnant you could run the risk of transmitting some STD. Come on man use your head (the one on your shoulders).
2006-09-23 21:30:30 · answer #4 · answered by hot.sassy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring condoms. Forget the reasons. Consider the alternatives.
2006-09-23 21:23:41 · answer #5 · answered by taurus 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That would be an extremely arrogant and disrespectful move on your part. What type of girl are you seeing anyway? And why are you having sex w/ strangers? That is just the dumbest thing that you could ever do. Get some self-respect.
2006-09-23 21:21:52 · answer #6 · answered by mad 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think men should carry condoms period. I don't think she's going to think thats what you were expecting if you just happened to have a condom in your wallet. It will let her know that you are concerned about protecting yourself!!!!!!
2006-09-23 21:21:38 · answer #7 · answered by rhondwht4 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is presumptuous, but in this day and age everybody expects sex and therefore it's best to be safe than sorry.
2006-09-23 21:22:48 · answer #8 · answered by Bubbi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
better to be prepared than not...the consequences can be rather bad if you don't have one and need it...she doesn't have to know that you have condoms with you even if the two of you don't have sex.....hope you get some...lol
2006-09-23 21:30:32 · answer #9 · answered by dipta37 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where do you plan on carrying it? Hide it in your wallet, its better to be safe than sorry...
2006-09-23 22:12:12 · answer #10 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋