Please be honest
2006-09-23 14:06:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im 25 bt had 2 big babies and im small so it shows
2006-09-23 14:10:08 · update #1
Honestly, the children would be of greater concern than the stretch marks. The children would not stop me from dating, but they would slow a relationship. The question of where is the father would be of interest. A guy never wants another looking over his shoulder or threatening him.
2006-09-23 14:17:09 · answer #1 · answered by Jack 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-19 01:46:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y r u being unfair 2 urself there are people out there who go for thin girls yes even with kids oh and a few stretch marks, its the person they c its like a used book might be worn on the outside but like new on the inside so stop thinking the wrong things about ur self live life 2 the full and enjoy remember looks might help but its the person whos better oh and every 1 loves kids iv got 4 and my missis has strech marks
2006-09-23 18:35:12 · answer #3 · answered by ok_squire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want honest? Ok , (and its not me!) but would you be put off a guy with a small c o c k ? though he's got a good personality?
Its the same thing.....But in reverse....he's not perfect!
But its a failing, and its there. Stretch marks are unpleasant, but dont always have to be seen, people used to do stuff in dimmed lights! More important, is your attitude...if you start sex with...dont look at me, they're awful, arnt they? im so embarrassed...it kills it anyway.
The truth is older guys are less put off, younger guys? we'll you've seen younger skinny girls in crop tops, thats the competition.
So its what you make of it, let your personality overcome your scars, thankfully, not on your face? some accident victims are not so fortunate, and have worse to overcome.
As for kids, people adapt, even adopt! and its far less of a problem than you think, so long as you dont start chat ups with...do you like kids....(specially not to some people!) its sort of killing it before it starts...chatting up isnt an interview for a substitute dad, ease them in the conversation gently....
2006-09-23 14:25:29 · answer #4 · answered by ben b 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i'm like u, was small, had a baby and got lots of stretchmarks. i was in an abusive relationship and a nice man rescued me, after a while of friendship he saw past the stretchmarks and took on my baby too. we now have a 9 month old of our own and even more stretchmarks.
good men r out there hun.
2006-09-24 04:00:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the kind of guy you are looking for. Most all will say yes because they think the can get in your pants easy. Most women with kids do give it up fast. This is not because they are slutty but simply because they think that because they do have kids that have to provide an often fledgling relationship with some sense of secure bond right away. Most men know this and will take advantage, they could care less about the kids because they will never be for real. My advice to you is keep them closed and be all about you're kids. Then you will really see which guy sticks around. He will be the one. because that forces him to deal with you as a person and as a mother, If he truly is the one he will wait regardless of you're kids to later become you're sex partner. as far as the stretch marks Who cares.
2006-09-23 14:18:01 · answer #6 · answered by THE GEMINI 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Being honest (honest is good) no I would not date a women with 2 kids and awful stretchmarks. just being honest hun. I would not like the idea of taking on someone Else's kids. Because IF at a later date I had children of my own with this women I know for a fact I would love my own kids more. As for the stretchmarks would not bother me in the slightest. Nobody is perfect.
2006-09-23 14:10:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
As a currently single guy, I don't want to date someone with kids. Stretchmarks fade, but kids will be there for years.
2006-09-23 14:09:26 · answer #8 · answered by special-chemical-x 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
depends on the personality not just the physical appearance. my last girlfriend had 5 sons. i have 2 myself, obviously being a bloke i didnt get stretch marks. but, no i would not be put off. anyone who is must be real shallow.
2006-09-23 17:35:57 · answer #9 · answered by Tone R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be dating the woman not the stretch marks, which are sometimes a normal part of childbearing. Looks change, the personality doesn't.
2006-09-23 14:14:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋