I have a great guy that is deeply in love with me and I with him but I just can't sem to believe I am worhty of it. I mean shure he tells me every day that I am. but I just feel like I don't deserve him. Am I crazy?
2006-09-23 14:04:52 · 9 answers · asked by Robin C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your not crazy .Its the Devil dont blow me off please the devil wants us to feel worthless and he wants to cause problems with everyone.He wants us to feel we arent worth real love or happiness even Gods love so I say ignore the Devil pray about it and love yourself because you know God loves you.Best wishes with your Man I hope it all works out good.
2006-09-23 14:14:39 · answer #1 · answered by butterflyspy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There must be a reason for this such as someone has said something or something has happened in the past so you feel like your not worth loving.
It sounds as if you have a low self confidence in yourself, and may be believe he is too good for you. I have felt like that in the past and it ends up ruining your relationship as you sabotage it because you feel unworthy.
Listen to what your partner is telling you, he obviiously thinks highly of you so listen to that. If your still nsure as him what he likes about you. It may be because he tells you this every day that it has begun to not mean as much as it use to.
Just remember providing him something that he likes that he wants to be around, that he wants to spend time with you. Pay attention to that.Its not just one way he must have been attracted to you in the first place, that does not just disappear.
May be you need to spend sometime pampering yourself, once you feel good about yourself this feeling will go away, have more confidence in yourself.
2006-09-23 21:15:47 · answer #2 · answered by CHIMP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not crazy. Feelings are not constant. They are always changing. You must understand that your feelings only represent your feelings. What I mean is that your feelings do not always represent reality. In reality, you are worthy of love. You don't have to feel like it. You do need to know it. Know it so certainly that if someone lies to you that you can say, "I am worthy of love". Love is not something you can earn. You can never do something to make another love you. Trust can be earned or lost. Faith cannot be earned. Lust can be earned. Productivity can be earned or lost. Value, at least monetary value, can be earned or lost. Personal value as a human is constant and cannot be earned or lost. You are valuable. You do deserve love. You don't have to feel it to deserve. No matter what you feel, KNOW emphatically that you do deserve love.
One thing that will help with feelings is communication. Keep communicating with him. Keep doing things together. Keep valuing him. As you interact and see that he loves you, you will feel it more. As you learn that he loves you, you will accept that you are loved.
You do respect him? You do not believe he is a dummy? He loves you. You deserve it. Trust him regarding this.
2006-09-23 21:41:23 · answer #3 · answered by Jack 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You either have REALLY low self esteem,maybe even depression,or you LOVE attention(perhaps a little narcissistic?)..........
2006-09-23 21:09:08 · answer #4 · answered by Direktor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you have a low self esteem??? i think you do. that is exactly the way i feel sometimes and my man tells me the same!!!
2006-09-23 21:11:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Low self esteem!!!!
2006-09-23 21:08:25 · answer #6 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your not crazy but, i have too say try believing in yourself a little more.
2006-09-23 21:13:38 · answer #7 · answered by Sweepy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do noy say that we all ned love
2006-09-23 21:07:42 · answer #8 · answered by CROSS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
huh
2006-09-23 21:07:34 · answer #9 · answered by richard_10453 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋