Yesterday me and my friend went to my crushes house and we spent like 2 hours there... then he invited a friend over and we went to a football game...we got there like 2 hours early so the guys folded up the seats and we sat in the back my crush asked me to sit on his lap so i did and he wrapped his arms around me and we sat there for like 2 hours talking and having a great time. During the football game we were basically at my crushes car the whole time...most of the time i saw sitting on him... my friend asked if she could sit on him and he said no... but he let me sit back down...when i left i gave him a up and it lasted for like 45 seconds and as we were letting go he gave me a squeeze...i was SURE he liked me but we didnt see each other today and he left HIs friend(whos a girl) like 3 comments on myspace and me zero...i dont talk online alot...but still....Who do you think he likes?
2006-09-23 14:01:26 · 30 answers · asked by Ashley010 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the comments were just like talking about the football game score...so they werent real personal
2006-09-23 14:05:37 · update #1
Sweety, I think that he likes his freind, yeah he made those physical gestures towords you. But he made the communication with her.
This is going to get me kicked off the under 20 hayride........but I believe and will always be convinced that most male-female so called "friends" relationships. The man would like to have a romantic relationship with that female freind.
I think that you spoiled your chance at having a future with him, innocent as it may seem.......by sitting up on his lap!
This displayed to him, even if its not true, that you gave an inch, you'll give a mile! Next time he may take a mile, but if you do he will never consider you girl-friend material, that already belongs to his freind. He will have sex with you until she desides she wants him though.
If you like him DO NOT! place a message about sitting on his lap, the kiss, or anything that ventures towards a sexual nature.
Your message if any (i would not unless you normally send hime messages) should be somthing pretaining to the football game.
When you and your freinds go out again, do not get sexual with him, he is just waiting for his freind to decide to want him. By having you sit on his lap he was attempting to make her jelouse so she would respond. Honey she did respond, by asking if she could sit on him. He played tuff by saying no.
But gave himself away by sending her a message.
Avoid using sex or impressions of sex to get any boy or man to want you. He wants her because she can talk foot-ball with him. They have already built a freindship relationship! He is wanting to move to another level with her.
2006-09-23 14:51:25 · answer #1 · answered by pirate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are a confusing compenent of our species. As are women.
Don't overanalyze things. If he left three comment for a friend on myspace, it's really nothing to worry about. There are a lot of reasons why he may not have sent you a comment. We women tend to think things through too much, and get our emotions all tied into it and tangled up in places that we shouldn't have put our concern in the first place.
I know it's hard. Believe me, I've been there.
Don't get jealous of his friend - but be happy for what you have. Yes, she's female, but men and women can be friends with one another without romantic feelings (despite what the media tries to tell us).
It's too hard to tell who he likes simply by your description here.
Just remember, love is more than a physical attraction, or a chemical reaction... it's so much deeper and wider than that.
2006-09-23 21:11:17 · answer #2 · answered by gino2351 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, from what I can tell, he's into you. However, guys can be...well guys, sometimes. He's friends with this other girl, so it doesn't surprise me that he sent her messages. Guys are sometimes like kids, you know, the ones that hit you when they like you...just because he didn't write you, doesn't mean he doesn't like you. Maybe he's nervous, and feeling some of the same things you are as well. If you can't get anything from him, or you just really want to know, try making the first move, write him, tell him how much fun you had at the game and hanging out with him, then suggest hanging out again soon. Don't necessarily make it sound like a date...just a suggestion. I hope everything works out for you. Later.
2006-09-23 21:08:53 · answer #3 · answered by GRR 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Confused- are they the same people?? - YOUR friend, HIS friend (who's a girl)?????
Sounds like he's feeling you but i wouldn't jump the gun....
The myspace thing isn't really relevant but honestly if you want him then i suggest you talk to him.. He could like both of you but just can't make a decision on who to get at so don't wait in the background to find out because if she wants him too she could make her move & snatch him up.
Now you don't have to come right out & say you like him, just start off w/ casual conversation like:
*how good of a time you had hanging w/ everyone
*bring up something funny that happened/ was said/was seen/etc...
*mention that y'all should ALL hang out again
*just talk!...get to know him if you don't really know him well....feel him out make sure he's the type of guy for you... Have fun!
2006-09-23 21:20:56 · answer #4 · answered by NicNac 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I believe that he likes you but is not serious about having a committed relationship. It is more than obvious that he still flirts and is probably open to a sexual relation with more than one women. If you don't mind sharing continue to date him or ask him out, But if you commit you might be the one to end up hurt.
2006-09-23 21:08:13 · answer #5 · answered by THE GEMINI 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could be you, could be her. He might have been teasing her not letting her sit on his lap, thats what I get from him commenting on her myspace profile. But he also might like you, and the myspace stuff could be just friendly banter. Why not write something on his wall, like "I really enjoyed my seat during the football game ;)"
2006-09-23 21:05:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
anyone and everyone he wants to dear.....he probably likes you both...careful sittin in those boys laps and all it rarely leads to much good at your age...
this by the way is a perfect example of why my girl will not be attending these types of school activities...first the lap,.. next i'm a grama...noooooo
2006-09-23 21:06:16 · answer #7 · answered by chereeder 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he know's he can have you so he want someone he can't
have,if it's to easy it's also very boring for him
don't look for love all over the place youuu gona end up
pregnant in the back seat of someone car's who's going to tell
you he love you and drop you as fast as he can
be carefull
isabelle
2006-09-23 21:14:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Jeeze. You are a CHILD---do child-things, be a child.
WHO CARES????? Is this going to matter in 10 years, or even 2 years?
Don't you have friends to talk to?
2006-09-23 21:06:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i htink that he likes u becasue if not he wouldnt had let u sit in his lap!! and also u have to wait because maybe he is too lazy how about u write him a comment but only one!
2006-09-23 21:04:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋