I love this guy and we went out...but after 2 weeks he ended the relationship because he thought I was jealous of this girl he was always blowing me off for...what should I do...I already tried to get back together by saying I wasn't jealous but he said he didnt like me anymore...I think he was just saying that so I would leave him alone...HELP!!
2006-09-23 13:52:29 · 24 answers · asked by dncrgrl1293 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you must be young.......after 2 weeks you dont fall in love that easily darling. but i know the feeling you have its hard to be dumped on..good thing you were not together for a long time its eaier to break away early. than to be in a long term relationship than to have to breakup...what you should do is try to move on..no matter how hard it is....than try to get together with friends and have a girls night out...believe me it will make you feel much better. than remember its his loss and you are a strong person and that he dont deserve you anyways..you can and will do much better in the future, good luck to you.
2006-09-23 13:58:50 · answer #1 · answered by mary c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there so many times it's scary. It's so hard to find the "right one" that when we find someone who is a definate candidate, our hearts grab on tight. I feel for you, but as you are already aware, you have a jerk on your hands and you were right in getting upset when he blew you off, and you should not appologize for your feelings. Here is what I have learned (hey, I'm 53 and have been dating since my divorce 17 years ago). Everytime you are tempted to swoon and think how perfect he was, take a deep breath and tell yourself, ouloud if necessary, "no, if he was the right guy, he would appreciate me for who I am. I'll get over him in a month or two."
Now, a word of warning. I've found that most men "bounce". That means, after two or three months of not hearing from you, he will come back. He'll call, he might even appologize. Then, if you are like me, you will give him another chance. Trust me, the same thing will happen again, only it won't take so long this time and your heart will begin to ache all over again. If he does call, make him BEEEEEG before you give him an inch.
Now, think about this. Try not sleeping with any man until you feel comfortable that he is completely commited to you for at least 2 months. I know it's hard, it leaves all the will power in your court, but I've talked to far too many men who finally made that big step after 4 or 5 months of celebacy. Good luck
2006-09-23 14:05:21 · answer #2 · answered by Sandy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, you shouldn't waste your time with some dude who is blowing you off. I think you should get all the stuff he gave you or reminds you of him ( except the nice gifts you really like) and trash them. Then get out of the house and do something exciting and fun with friends. don't let him waste anymore of your time. And in a few weeks you'll start to feel better. At least that's what I do.
2006-09-23 13:57:34 · answer #3 · answered by thothibis7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By the wording you used you must be pretty young probably anywhere from 14 to 16 at that time in your age you don't really know what love is.
Your not in love its just puppy love.
Slow down, find out who you are, live life have fun and one day you will find the right guy for you. first and far most important finish school.
You don't need a guy right now especially one that dose not want you. you deserve better let him go!
2006-09-23 14:00:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u should try to get over him i kno its not easy cause im goin through the same thing and if he was blowin u off 4 some one else then no offence but even though u love him u should have left him cause he isnt worth it so try to leave him alone
2006-09-23 13:58:24 · answer #5 · answered by Need help!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much of a hint do you need???? He has told you he wants nothing to do with you. You have been rejected, cast aside, kicked to the curb. Get it???? You LOVE him??? Grow up, you sound like a very young girl that falls in love with a guy when he talks to her. Leave him alone and move on.
2006-09-23 13:57:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
meet more men.
The only way to get over anyone is to replace them in your mind with someone else. The only way to make sure you find someone good enough is to meet lots of them. So... meet more men. Lots of them. Some you will hate, some you will like, some you will f*ck, but the more you meet, the more likely you are to forget this one.
2006-09-23 13:55:36 · answer #7 · answered by neoliminal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two weeks and your madly in love with this guy. You know he is not the only single guy around. I don't think it was meant to be so find someone else.
2006-09-23 13:57:23 · answer #8 · answered by canuticklemepink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on...why do you want someone that doesn't want you. I bet you really were jealous, because you sound obsessed.
2006-09-23 13:54:52 · answer #9 · answered by ManOfTheHour 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hon let him go and get revenge on him go out with his best i mean best freind and see if he get's jealous and don't forget to strut ur stuff this is the best way to get them back trust me it works
2006-09-23 13:58:13 · answer #10 · answered by hot_blonde_2952 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋