I am currently going to school. I will graduate in about a year about the same time my father will most likely die of lung cancer. My mother committed suicide when i was eight. I have had a divorce....No children. I feel good that i am going to finish school i just dont feel good about being alone in my life. I can make friends but nothing is what it use to be does anybody feel this way? Its kinda like im happy and depressed kinda like the lion king thing its a circle of life and you have to look at things positivly. I have dealt with this well yet I worry when my father passes because the rest of my family is gone exept my sister and she is getting married soon so shes going to be busy alot and i dont know what im trying to ask other then DOES anybody feel like i do ? I dont even feel like dating because well women in my life have been problems no offence to the ladies out there. How do you feel about life? What do you think you could do to make your life better?
2006-09-23 13:46:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can definitely relate- my brother died when I was a teen, I am going to graduate from college this year and the two best friends of my life graduated last year and are gone. I have been terribly lonely this year so far even though I still hang around with my other friends who are quality people but it just isn't the same. I try not to wallow around thinking about my best buds, but there are two spots in my heart which only they can fill, and it hurts sometimes to feel that void. What can I do to make life better? Just keep trying, I guess, and look for those very special people who really are one in a million and try to keep my chin up and keep on growing as a person. I hope that one day I will be able to feel complete on my own, and not feel like I need people.
2006-09-23 13:52:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grieving the loss of a loved one is never easy. I have lost my father 15 years ago, my mother 2 years ago, and my sister 1 year ago. Since my mother's passing my family has completely fallen apart. I no longer see my siblings, nor do I have any grandparents, and have lost touch with sister's family since her death last year. I am married and have a child of my own. Both my husband and I no longer have any relatives on either side that we are in contact with. I am just now coming to terms with the fact that I entered this world alone, and I too will leave this world alone, but having my husband to share this journey with along the way is a true blessing. You too will one day find someone to share your journey with, until then you need to concentrate on taking care of yourself. Keep a positive attitude, enjoy life everyday and surround yourself with good friends to love and be loved by. Life has a way of working things out...For now, take care of you. Seek out things that make you happy, life is short.
2006-09-23 13:57:39 · answer #2 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm really sorry about you father and mother. I know how you feel because my mother died when I was in thee 5th grade, and it is still hard on me till this day. She always taught me no matter what life brings just keep your head up high, and keep going, if you can do something to make it better then you better do it, and if there is nothing you can do think of something because there is always something that you can do to make things better. I also know how you feel because my sister is married and moved out, my brother is moved out and my step mom, and my dad always want to be alone so I really don't have anybody to talk to, so I'm always depressed too.
2006-09-23 14:11:10 · answer #3 · answered by angelfire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, completed that. i don't be responsive to what you're able to do approximately it different than the two denying it, ignoring it , pwning everybody by making use of status up for it without shame or hoping he likes you decrease back... you will recover from it if he does discover out and would not such as you decrease back nevertheless. that's going to be embarrassing, yet no longer the tip of the international. ~
2016-10-01 07:22:06 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear about your father, for real.
As far as making life better, you have to live for you..don't look for a woman to make you happy, just do what makes YOU happy. In the end, that's all that matters.
2006-09-23 13:53:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
START LOVING YOURSELF AND GO TO CHURCH READ A BIBLE MY BE YOU SHOULD GET SOME COUNSELING
2006-09-23 13:51:39 · answer #6 · answered by applepiekiwi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋