2006-09-23 13:38:27 · 16 answers · asked by falseimage1994 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I do not understand your question. I'd really like to respond, but I truly don't know what you're asking. Please rephrase.
2006-09-23 13:40:29 · answer #1 · answered by Leslie G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships don't last if there is lack of communication. You must know that or you wouldn't be on here asking advice :) First of all, you need to find a common ground. Wether it be music, movies, family life, school, work, whatever. Find something that connects you and her together that you can both talk about until you are blue in the face. :~() If you want to start something new, talk about where you would like to see your relationship go, or maybe even new stuff you guys would like to go do. I am assuming you are still in high school because most adults don't have these problems nowadays because they can't be bothered. Chances are the relationship is still new and it started with a hey, this girl likes you, hey this guy likes you type thing, huh? If that is the case, there is something there that made each of you interested in the other, you just have to find out what it is. Go to the movies, dinner, or dances and football games together. Hang out with each others friends. You will quickly find wether or not you are compatible with each other, and if you are great, if not, stay friends because that is better than just ignoring the fact that you or her exist at all because of embarrassment. I hope this helped...good luck and God bless...:)
2006-09-23 13:51:45 · answer #2 · answered by pamalamadingdong_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of just sitting around talking, do things together and you will find yourself talking more naturally.
For example: Go bowling, fishing, hiking, picnicing, walking, kite flying, spelunking, do a puzzle together, play board or card games. These activities will relax you and help you get to know each other- what is important is that you do lots of things and vary your activities. This will keep things interesting, fun, and allow you to enjoy each other through various experiences and find out what you like about each other and the things you enjoy doing the most together
As you do more and more things together you will find that conversation comes naturally and more easily and also it will not be just about what you are doing it will be about other subjects. Doing things together it will relax you and will bring to mind other subjects that have nothing to do with what you are doing.
You will find that conversation will come with ease after this.
Also if you notice when we talk to our friends we often bring up the past for a start in conversation : we say things like: "Hey remember when" or we give questions, so we start a conversation off with a question- these questions are everything from how is your mom and dad, how did your day go, how did you find the test in Anatomy lecture, to what do you feel about this or that issue in world affairs.
I hope this helps.
2006-09-23 13:57:48 · answer #3 · answered by newrabbit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol. Youre just have an immature relationship is all. Communication is something you learn, it not something you pull from the air, or a list of topics.
The more interests you share, the more time youre together, the more open you are with eachother, the more you care for eachothers thoughts and feelings... thats when you learn how to communicate with eachother, and have things to talk about.
2006-09-23 13:41:04 · answer #4 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you guys do not know what to talk about then you surely have nothing in common---split up and look for someone who has like interest as you do---because you need common ground for a relationship...
2006-09-23 13:42:56 · answer #5 · answered by MARIANNE G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about the same things you both like.. ask questions.. is this a new relationship? if so you two prolly have so many things you wanna know about each other.. so ask away get to know each other and good luck
Brittney
2006-09-23 13:43:12 · answer #6 · answered by angelbaby775509 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you're in love with someone you never run out of things to talk about.
Sounds like there isn't much to your relationship.
2006-09-23 13:45:46 · answer #7 · answered by rkd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't help eachother independantly. Go get a 3rd party. Like a relationship counselor or sumthing.
2006-09-23 13:45:18 · answer #8 · answered by figg7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about what u like about her, talk about stuff that r on your mined and just say things that would make u guys reletionship, good, and if u don't have anything to say u guys might notbe a good couple
2006-09-23 13:46:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to talk what is the problem and try to solve it....u need to tell her what u want and listen to her what she wants 2....
wen it comes to relationship,u need to be open minded to work for it....
2006-09-23 13:41:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the 2 of you don't have enough in common to keep things lively . . .
2006-09-23 13:40:33 · answer #11 · answered by ♥LoisLane♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋