my boyfriend confessed to me that he was with this girl who is younger than me, and said he can have her any time if wants to, so i told her, and she said it wont happen again and shes not the only one. 1) i dont believe her, but i had to say something, 2) will he be mad i said something to her??? 3) i am 3 months pregnant, and he said it happened before i got pregnant.
2006-09-23 13:37:10 · 16 answers · asked by Marijane Justina M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he cheats on u and ur worried about making him mad??? thats sounds stupid...leave his *** and find a better guy.
2006-09-23 13:39:39 · answer #1 · answered by mr_fury666 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He might be mad, but you should tell him anyway; after all, he is the one the one that cheated on you. Even if he gets mad, though, you should try to keep your cool. If you are three months pregnant, you should at least try (for a little while) to work it out for the baby's sake. If it really doesn't work, then leave him, but at least sit him down and have an honest talk first.
2006-09-23 13:43:39 · answer #2 · answered by rd211 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to me, you have every right to have said something to the other girl. Your boyfriend is playing games with your health. There is way too many diseases going around in the world for you to be submissive when it come to your body. Be aware of what is going on around you, if you feel uncomfortable confront your boyfriend of your feelings and doubts. And the fact that he said he can have her anytime he wants to, well, if you want to put up with it, you go ahead but as I said be aware of the possibilities. You love him obviously but what if this girl has a disease? Herpes, Scabies and worse HIV/AIDS.....love yourself and your unborn child, and if that means letting him go then you do what you have to do. Yes, things can be worked out and sometime people can change but if he's so dismissive of the fact that he cheated and says that he will continue to do it, then you step up and say something. You take care and feel free to email me if you have more to talk about!
2006-09-23 13:44:26 · answer #3 · answered by TNW22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have gone through a similar situation. You have the right to ask her about it. you need to let him know where you stand and that it better not happen again. ya'll have a baby to raise together. ask him about the other ones. tell him you talked to her but that you cant trust him to tell you the truth so you asked her. good luck and congragualtion on your baby. i hope that you get things straightened out for you and your baby.
2006-09-23 13:42:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a player and he'll be mad because he'll be trying to compensate for being caught; he's going to try and turn it back on you to cover up for being busted.
You need to do better than this immature loser.
2006-09-23 13:43:11 · answer #5 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him he dont sound like a long term guy, go get some one you can trust. he may get mad but so what, see answer 1
2006-09-23 13:43:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how much do you love him first question yuo must answer your self is that enough love to stand a cheater ...? sadly cheaters don't change it dosn't really matter what he's gonna say ...probably lies or he's gonna perform a dramatic act 4 you and is gonna be like that all and every time do you wanna live like that....? DON"T WASTE TIME!
2006-09-23 13:51:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHO CARE IF HE'S MAD!!!!!!!!!
put you're pants on girl and show him he as to respect you
or he's out,respect yourself,do you want someone to love you and be faithfull or you want to feel sorry for yourself? he cheat
because he's an ***$%.and if he treat you it's because he 's
already doing it.......the one that you need to love is you
life is to short to wast it on some stupid mother f#%#@!.
take care sweetheart and remember that you deserve the best
isabelle
2006-09-23 13:50:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIRL LEAVE HIM....YOU GO ON WITH YOUR BABY BY YOUR OWN OR PUT CHILD SUPPORT ON HIM....BUT DONT BE WITH HIM...THAT IS DISRESPECTFUL......WHO GIVES A DAMN IF HE GETS MAD.....YOU HAD A REASON....AND REALLY IS NOT THAT GIRLS FAULT IS HIS FAULT.....DONT WASTE YOUR TIME ON HIM.....THAT WHAT I WOULD DO...I WILL KICK HIM OUT IN THE CURVE.....AND PUT CHILD SUPPORT ON HIM.....GIRL YOU DESERVE BETTER THAN THAT.....BE SMART...MAKE THE RIGHT DESICION....YOUR BABY NEEDS A MOM TO BE STRONG....TAKE CARE AND GOOD LUCK...
2006-09-23 13:45:13 · answer #9 · answered by Love Land 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is going to be HOT with you if he finds out....mostly because he is wrong for doing that to you and he knows it!!!!....and you can rest assured that Ms. Thang is going to make sure that he does!!!
2006-09-23 13:40:28 · answer #10 · answered by Faith In The House 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋