Today is my fiance's 21st birthday and I want to take him to his first strip club. Have any women taken their man to one and if so, how was it? Any suggestions?
Thanks
PS: Im kinda looking foward to it too
2006-09-23 13:21:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh yeah - it's a blast.
You definitely have to get him a lap dance from a stripper that you pick for him.
Also, check with the DJ, because at a lot of places they do birthday specials where they put the guy on stage and have 2 or 3 strippers dance for him at once.
There are a lot of girls at the clubs these days, so you shouldn't feel out of place.
Have fun!
2006-09-23 13:24:11 · answer #1 · answered by a_blue_grey_mist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I took my boyfriend last year for his 31st birthday. So much fun. They do have birthday specials...it was Halloween so I made sure that the cutest girls particpated. They made him dance on stage and get his own dollars, etc. so much fun to watch.
It depends on your relationship though...if you trust each other and don't have jealousy issues,then go for it. If you're the type that gets jealous and insecure about your relationship...whether you're engaged or not, you shouldn't do it.
We have gone several times....neither of us has any jealousy issues and we trust each other fully. We use the experience as sort of like foreplay....we'll go and get some lap dances, stop in at the 'novelty store' on our way out and go home to enjoy each other. Makes things more exciting.
2006-09-23 13:46:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on what kind of relationship you want with him. Do you want monogamous, or open one? If you don't mind your guy looking at other women, and don't mind hearing him make sexual comments about how hot they are, or his fantasies of them, then by all means, go for it! But make sure he wouldn't mind you going to a club where guy's strip.
If you want to be monogamous, and his only one, then don't go.
If you do decide to take him, tell him you don't mind him going, but you don't want him messing around with a woman outside the strip joint (If that's how you feel).
I went once, when my son's father and I started out. He wanted to go, and I didn't, but went anyway, I didn't want to watch other women sitting on him and stuff, and him tipping them putting money in the garter. But that's because I'm a monogamous type of person. I wanted a guy who only had eyes for me.
It's all a matter how you feel.
2006-09-23 13:33:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I have not because I am not turned on nor do I like the idea of dancing naked females. He has been taken by his male friends before, long before I met him. But if you are looking forward to the idea of taking him, invite some friends who would want to go as well. Some of the dancing that you notice turns him on, perform it for him at home.
2006-09-23 13:25:34 · answer #4 · answered by THICKUMS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its fun on my husbands 35th bday we went i was nervous but after a few drinks i ended up on the pole i danced 2 songs and made enough money to buy drinks all night they ask me if i wanted a application for a job there i about died i never forget it but ya cant be the jealous type or you will not have fun
2006-09-23 13:26:54 · answer #5 · answered by harley w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go there with an open mind. Some of the girls are aggressive. Don't take it personally, they are trying to make money. If you don't like it you can always leave. Have fun.
2006-09-23 13:23:16 · answer #6 · answered by Nena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went when I was younger with my boyfriend who is my husband now. We had fun and actually the really funny part was that my friend from high school was there...working...
If you don't take life to seriously it can be lots of fun. We aren't kinky and weird and no I don't like women, but it was fun teasing him.
2006-09-23 13:25:00 · answer #7 · answered by toobusy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My man and I love to go to strip clubs together. Chances are Im going to be just as turned on as he, and then we'll go home and have the roughest sex ever.
2006-09-23 13:28:31 · answer #8 · answered by vernise2679 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah i havent but i think it would be fun, talk to ur man about it if he wants to u both will enjoy if not give him a private lap dance or something
2006-09-23 13:23:33 · answer #9 · answered by ice solid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only go if you want him to think you are bisexual and that you have bad morals.He will probly break up with you later and it will be because he doesnt respect you.The thing is its part of respecting yourself and we are so demented we dont even know what that means.Dont do it .Save your relationship .I mean you claim to want to marry him.Why marry a man if you are bisexual and its kind of obvious you are.
2006-09-23 13:59:09 · answer #10 · answered by butterflyspy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋