IT WAS ALL GOOD AT FIRST BUT NOW ITS ROUTINE. IS MY THRILL GONE? I ASKED HIM TO GO DOWN AND HE DID, THAT WASN'T NO GOOD EITHER. IS IT HIM OR REALLY ME?
2006-09-23 13:19:35 · 9 answers · asked by juceelipz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
draw him a diagram...you need to direct him on exactly what you would like from him while he is doing it...he is not a mind reader...perhaps what is not working for you may have made his ex scream w/ pleasure and he is wondering what is wrong with you...don't bu afraid of words like..harder, faster, suck, nibble...whatever ..train the man just like you would any other pet and he may very well suprise you
2006-09-23 13:30:36 · answer #1 · answered by chereeder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be you, if you're expecting some kind of "magic' to occur.
Otherwise, if you've talked to him and he just can't do it, the thing is to find out what left the relationship; couples therapy might help, or perhaps just a change of pace - watch adult videos together, go to strip clubs, hire a call girl - whatever will break the monotony and get some spark back in the bedroom. Try out swingers groups - who knows!
2006-09-23 20:22:59 · answer #2 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on attitude as well. If you think your partner is not pleasing you the way he should, make sweet talk and suggest that you try something different.
If you're looking for a book I recommend "The Joy of Sex".
2006-09-23 20:21:58 · answer #3 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have started taking anti-depressants that could cause you to be less intense and interested in this area.
Also if you feel less close due to relationship problems, that can take way from the feelings also.
If you love him, good luck...........and keep trying.
2006-09-23 20:23:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy some pornos and have a glass of wine and if that don't work ask yourself it this what I want?
2006-09-23 20:39:12 · answer #5 · answered by LaLa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is only half the problem
2006-09-23 20:21:31 · answer #6 · answered by likeitis 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You
2006-09-23 20:21:54 · answer #7 · answered by Ayman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no...you need to go buy a dildo....please yourself
2006-09-23 20:21:13 · answer #8 · answered by frankgrimes.rm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come see me, i run some "tests" on you, and fix the problem.
2006-09-23 20:21:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋