Senario: girlfriends mother extreemly strict about boyfriends. She wont have it, but only 'just as friends'. Mother doesn't know of our superb on going relationship. I swear, and thats perfectly fine by her. But its a big no-no for mother. I think her mother checked out my g.f.'s phone, and emails, and found out bout us, & inevitably copped abit of swearing. Well, i dont know what has happened, but i presume that cuz g.f. sent me an email (in caps) "dont ever email me again". I think she's upset (and upset heaps). So obviously i think her mother just found out. The ******* stupid ******* woman got her **** into what she shouldn't have. So, talking to g.f. is gonna be hard--she never picks up her phone. What should i do? I DONT WANTA LOOSE HER
2006-09-23 13:12:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Don't call or write her. If you see her at school or somewhere alone in public, ask her what's up, then respect her situation.
2006-09-23 13:15:59 · answer #1 · answered by beez 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NINE, either I am confused, or you are. On one question, you rated me as best answer. In that one, I figured you were trying to say that you are gay and wasn't sure how to approach this other guy. Now on this question, you are talking about a girl problem. What up? Or is this a made up story, to make it sound as if this is a girl issue? Anyway, if this really is about the "meddling mom", there isn't much you can do about it. Just follow what her mom wants from you. If you really love this person, and wait long enough, you will eventually gain mom's respect as well. But you can't be sneaky about it though. Don't call her, or send flowers, or any of that stuff. All you can do is, let her know "once only" that you still care about her, and are waiting for everything to be right with her, and her moms wishes. We can't use this as a source of email, and you are not set up for accepting email. Try and fix this problem, please. ttyl.
2006-09-24 02:56:10 · answer #2 · answered by knownothing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he do no longer want to alter the undesirable concern, why you're able to placed attempt. If he do no longer want to be with you, why you nonetheless attempt to maintain him. Love is something between 2 person, whether that is no longer there, why dont you purely permit it pass. pass on, you will discover your actual love at some point. remember, if he doesnt such as you, and you're taking all ability to maintain him, the two considered one of you wont be chuffed.
2016-10-01 07:21:07 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try doing something romantic. But if that isn't working, just give her a little time to cool off. My mom was like that about boys, but I just needed to talk to her about it, and how I think that I should be able to date. I had to stand up for myself. Just reassure her and let her know you aren't going to leave her because of the mom issue, even though it's a huge issue. Good luck, I hope you two stay together!
2006-09-23 13:18:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Id be upset too. Whats her problem, I wonder.
You deserve an explanation. Maybe her mom wrote that email, maybe her mom has her phone.
Id wait a day or so, and if you dont hear from her, go check on her and ask her what happened.
Good luck
2006-09-23 13:18:37 · answer #5 · answered by ~~ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey you are not married, move on. It is not a relationship unless everything is smooth and things like this DON'T happen. Now if you were maybe 34 and married that would be a different more serious case.
2006-09-23 13:58:42 · answer #6 · answered by Golden Ivy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes a mothers intuition is on time. I knew a girl and
she was a fox. But her mom didn't want me taking her out.
Later, we snuck out oe night, and I got drunk, and had a wreck where she got hurt. That was years ago.
But maybe she is afraid of losing her daughters love. One never
knows.
2006-09-23 13:16:42 · answer #7 · answered by Tegghiaio Aldobrandi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am assuming that your a teenager.
There isn't much you can do if the girl is under the control of her mother especially if she is not of age where she can leave etc.
I realize that you don't want to lose her, but not much you can do.
2006-09-23 13:19:16 · answer #8 · answered by Dale 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Send flowers to the girls house, mothers love that,plus it is more respectable.
If she loves u, she will keep in touch some way.
2006-09-23 13:16:07 · answer #9 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
? has all the right answers, so good luck
and if all fails its best to accept that its over & then find someone new to love & in time that will happen if you let it.
2006-09-23 13:57:10 · answer #10 · answered by ausblue 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋