I'm only young and I wanna know.
Is it bad?
2006-09-23 12:39:41 · 18 answers · asked by Juleeza AKA JAY_JAY 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Usually because they want to satisfy their selfish desires...
Stay a virgin until marriage dearie.... it's worth it
2006-09-23 12:41:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is great, like any other human endeavour you need practice. Tiger woods practices golf to be good enough and has a coach. Two virgins together for the rest of your life? Who knows what to do ? sure jump on, pump a bit and roll off !!!! bad bad bad sex ....shudder....so virgins get a bad sex life and the funny thing is they don’t know it. There is a myth that some how saving yourself for someone special means something, it is totally and utterly childish.
I have has sex with women who "remained virgins until they were married” now after they have had their divorce, they have started to become women and find out how good sex can be and explore their own sexuality. The only thing they regret, is not starting sex earlier and all those years of crappy sex.
Sex is natural, waiting for your marriage is something from the middleages, when there was no birth control. Sex is something adults do, virginity was for children who were 14 waiting until they go married at 16, and it is a ridiculous idea 400 years out of date. It produces bad sex and frustration, there isn’t a single reason someone who is mature would want to wait.
2006-09-23 19:41:26 · answer #2 · answered by brinlarrr 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
For a very high percentage of people in our culture, sex is a big part of the relationship. It's not about impressing anyone or being right or wrong. It's just something that people enjoy and want to be sure that they'll be enjoying it with the person they will be spending the rest of their life with. Most religion dictates we wait, but in the end it's up to you and your partner. Only your deity (God) can judge you. If you choose to make sex a part of your relationship, let that be your choice and your partners. Don't let the opinions of others influence your decision. And of course BE FULLY AWARE of the consequences of your actions. ie. pregnancy, disease, etc.
Best advice I can give you: seek the guidance of a trusted adult in your life. ie. mom, dad, uncle, aunt, whatever... Good luckl
2006-09-23 19:52:48 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
People are normally waiting longer to get married than they used to. Back in our Grandparen't day a woman was considered an "Old Maid" if not married by age 21. I was 31 when I got married, and it is not likely that when people wait to get married that they are not going to have sex. BTW...I waited until I was 22, because I was not really that interested in sex when I was younger and in school.
2006-09-23 19:45:14 · answer #4 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sex feels damn good. There are a lot of responsibilities that come with being sexually active. Pregnancy is always an issue, not to mention the diseases that are out there. There are also added emotions when sex is in the picture so you have to weigh all your options.
2006-09-23 19:43:14 · answer #5 · answered by laedeb 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
depends on your religion i guess.
when a person gets to a certain age they wanna have sex. some think its the 'cool thing to do' some just.. wanna get their first time over with.. some want experience under their belt before they find "the one" so they aren't flubbing around in bed on their wedding night, some just... want to have sex every day of every week of every month of every year. People have sex for millions of reasons. It depends on the person I suppose.
2006-09-23 19:43:03 · answer #6 · answered by brittypxo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
depends on your religion if it's bad. but i wouldn't suggest it. it takes away from what you and your husband can share alone.
some people do it to feel loved because they have never felt love before from a parent. which it dosen't provide but they use it and perceive it to help.
2006-09-23 19:46:03 · answer #7 · answered by staceylovesshon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the desire is so strong they just give into it. If they really wanted to show self control they could.
2006-09-23 19:43:02 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't wait until marriage, well iwas planning to but my bf, i knew he was d one i would spend d rest of my life with so i did it and i had no regret and presently we are happily married. I just knew that he was the one so i didn't wait,
2006-09-23 19:46:58 · answer #9 · answered by Italian Empress 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because not all people are compatible in that area and you wanna find out first
2006-09-23 19:41:38 · answer #10 · answered by aimlynsmi 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋