should I stop looking for true love and just get a girlfriend who I can "nail to the floor like a piece of wood"?
2006-09-23 12:37:20 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok more info... first wife and I were married 17 years... she wanted a divorce not me.... second hard time gambler... I didn't find out till after we were married she kept it a secret...I'm not a bad guy no bad habits etc,
2006-09-23 12:51:13 · update #1
I'm lonely thats why
2006-09-23 18:19:04 · update #2
you sound just like my soon to be ex. He cant understand why I am divorcing him either. He is belittling with his words, he is lazy about working at relationships, he is mean as he can be and very confused and manipulative. I am his third wife by the way so girls reading this, take heed, if he has been divorced several times, get a third, fourth and fifth oppinion before you marry him! I was fooled by his manipulation and his handsome face but underneath it all he was not at all a man I needed. He wanted to "nail me to the floor" too. He, Like you wanted a woman to do his biddling and put up with his crap and never question him, be hurt by him, or defends herself against him. You need to do some serious sould searching within yourself to find out who you are as a man. Are you the kind of man you would want your daughter to marry?
2006-09-23 14:40:53 · answer #1 · answered by Lynnette G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just out of interest why do you want to nail anyone to the floor? Relationships need space, no one likes to be controlled. Never give up on true love though. Do think before getting married again, find someone you really get on with, sound out her feelings on matrimony too, try to do what you both want. Easier said than done I know, but you've got to learn from your mistakes if you don't want to end up feeling jaundiced about the whole thing!
2006-09-23 19:51:12 · answer #2 · answered by lianhua 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never stop looking for true love but, in the meantime, find someone you can "nail to the floor like a piece of wood". Nothing wrong with that.
2006-09-23 19:44:54 · answer #3 · answered by Hello Dave 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well fella. You did not learn anything the first time round did you. I have been married ten years next year. Only to find out in the last coulpe of day's that she has been seeing somer1 else over the last 6 year's. How stupid was i. And she told me the reason she done what she did. Because marriage did noe suite her. So feela my advise to you is. Dont get married again untill you now your partner. If you have can. Good luck.
2006-09-24 07:34:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never stop looking. You just have not found her yet. You never know she might even like being nailed on the floor like a piece of wood!
2006-09-23 19:39:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say stop looking for some ideal and start being realistic. Just get a girl you get on with! ( But then your full of s**t anyway) If only I could split myself into a million pieces I would sort you lot out good style!
2006-09-23 19:42:37 · answer #6 · answered by sarkyastic31 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am stuck in arut, have the father of my kids livin with me but i know hes (checkin the green grass) if u know what i mean, and wants me to marry him i just think that all blokes are players and want a sexy woman, i feel the same way as u but trust me all women arent bad i give my heart and soul to my partner but its like water off a ducks back, im 25 5ft 5 and size ten! why does he need to look elsewhere? but he does
and can i have ur number!!!!!!!!
2006-09-23 21:15:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you would fall in love with a lamppost if it paid you some attension!
By the way- true love is just a fantasy, they (women) are all the same 5 yrs down the line!
Only interested in what they can screw out of you when it all ends,and believe me it does!!!!
2006-09-24 07:19:59 · answer #8 · answered by HIMSELF 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that you have a girl friend, for a very long time before marrying her (5 years +). Consider living with her for a bit to see what shes like, then you can base your decision upon that.
2006-09-23 19:51:51 · answer #9 · answered by Conspicuously Inconspicuous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel the need to have a woman constantly? Why not enjoy being single for a while and take things as they go? I don't think you can really go looking for true love. It will find you.
2006-09-23 19:42:13 · answer #10 · answered by johnsredgloves 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋