this is my last child and i am just so torn.
2006-09-23 12:29:51 · 5 answers · asked by kaycee1973 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Since godparents are responsible for the spiritual guidance of the child, if you have one brother who is more religious, or likely to follow through with his responsibilities, then I would ask that one. If you have more children later, they can have different godparents you know. It doesn't even have to be a relative of yours. In actuality, it probably won't make that much difference,cuz there isn't much "real" work to be done to be a godparaent. It's really more of a title than anything else.
Good luck.
2006-09-23 14:21:35 · answer #1 · answered by julie j 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course ask them both, there are no official rules. Think of it this way: Your child will be extra lucky to have 2 godfathers. why risk offending one of them, it's not worth it. The harmony of your family is definitely more important.
2006-09-23 14:39:16 · answer #2 · answered by krazy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
properly i grow to be interior the same predicument, I had to chooose between to best associates, yet i did not decide on. My spouse chosen the godmother yet ran around asking the same undertaking & eveeryone instructed me its superb. i'm not sure related to the rule for being cathilic tho....... Congrats on the toddler
2016-12-18 15:44:52 · answer #3 · answered by alsobrook 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure ask both of them don't worry about not having 2 god mothers
2006-09-23 14:17:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Pick your favorite
2006-09-23 12:47:33 · answer #5 · answered by aliciarox 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋