what should i do?
move out and find a job to pay for expenses?
take out personal loan?
i cant' deal with my mother anymore
2006-09-23 12:23:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Let me give u a little advice, i went through the same thing but uknow what i did? i stayed at home at took everything i went through and then when i was finished with school i moved out because i knew i would be able to make it without my parents. Stay at home, ket them take care of all d expenses and then when u r through u move out.
2006-09-23 12:26:56 · answer #1 · answered by Italian Empress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely understand why you can no longer live under the same roof! Been there and done that. I would not take out a personal loan, it'll eat you alive in interest payments. Not to mention the added stress. Try instead looking for a roommate to share rent with on an apt or house. Put up ads on the grocery store bullitin boards and any where you can think of on campus. With that in place you might still need to pull in a few hours working as well. But I would definetly seek out others who want to do the same thing and share expenses.
2006-09-23 19:37:28 · answer #2 · answered by Janet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get a loan for your room + board, plus tuition and books, and the loan should cover all of it, if you attend an in-state school that is not a private school. You can opt for the work/study program on your loan application - if you think you can handle working while excelling in your classes, which will give you more money for your expenses. Whether you stay home and finish college, or move out an finish college, remember two things: Your mother is your only mother and finishing college should be a priority. Good luck!
2006-09-23 19:35:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the college and ask about student housing and employment assistance. Search the web for any scholarship you can qualify for. Look into student loans.
Do a budget.
Plan to move between semesters. Go to your parents when you have all the information regarding where you will live and how you plan to support yourself and let them know that you will be leaving on whatever date. Take them out to dinner, or fix a nice meal for them and tell them you appreciate everything they have done. Foster the good will of your parents. They will remain your most staunch support. Show your parents the person you are to become who can be responsible, independent, and safe. Mom may need some reassurance that you know how to keep her son safe. Behave like you understand your responsibilites, respect your family and still intend take initiative with your own life.
You have the gift of time to transition and to say good bye. Odds are you will never live at home again.
2006-09-23 19:49:44 · answer #4 · answered by Sunbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would Im 25 and live on my own I moved out when I was 24 It was the best decision I ever made. I got finacial aid and a job. and I see my parents on the weekends and its great. I have a hard time communicationing with my mom and when I moved it got better.
Plus all my friends are at school. Hang in there Good luck
2006-09-24 03:05:12 · answer #5 · answered by van1890gogh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your grades can handle the strain, get a job. Loans are a bummer to have to pay off. Even if it takes you a little longer to get the degree.
Now, a suggestion for which you don't have to pay. :) Remeber as time goes on that, unfortunate as it probably is, much of what you learned about being an adult came from your parents. (That comes out of my experience.)
2006-09-23 19:29:28 · answer #6 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its the time for you to move out and get a job, if you need to take out a small loan.
2006-09-23 19:31:16 · answer #7 · answered by figg7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go part time to school and get a job, you are 21 after all.
2006-09-23 19:29:59 · answer #8 · answered by igɳo★ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The college don't have a dorm you can live in. And try to get a grant to help with living expenses.
2006-09-23 19:28:31 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm no deal with it just when you no your moms gonna trigger a nerve leave the room or go out end the conversation with her befor you start geting angry... loans youll b paying back for ever but do get a job n just save save save till you have enough to make it then move!
2006-09-23 19:28:02 · answer #10 · answered by jessica18 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋