I am thinking about giving my ex back things he gave me, to not be surrounded by the painfullness of having lost him. I don't want to throw things out, or give it away. After readong details, should I give it back to him, or should I follow the other option I have for myself: keep the stuff, but have it out of sight until I'm over him.
If I do give back the stuff, I was going to put it in box, write his name on it, and when he and his roomate are at work, I leave the box by the door to his apartment (he lives in a two-flat). Then I was going to attach a note to the presents and cards he gave me, and photos I took of him:
Here's the note:
For m early Sweetest Day present to you, I am giving this stuff to you because I don't want to have memories around me of a guy who obviously is not coming back to me. I heard you tell (room mate's name) one day I called you to tell him you're dead. That's not funny! For now on, I am dead to you! (I am going to write more in a second)
2006-09-23 12:21:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You will ever hear my name again, see me again, nor hear my voice again! Just you know that someday I will find a man to love me, see my heart as it is, and will treasure me, love me, cherish me, and appreciate the good woman I am!
Now take a shot of tequila, and toast to yourself the fact you got rid of a woman you can't stand.
You may view me as junk, but I wil be someone's else's treasure!
You know, you didn't have to lie to me about being gay to get rid of me! You could've told me not to call you and email you, you b-tch!
If you want more details, look at my blog on my 360 degrees page.
thanks ahead of time.
2006-09-23 12:25:38 · update #1
sorry about some of my spelling errors, forgot to do the spell check!
2006-09-23 12:27:01 · update #2
if u don't love him then go on ahead
2006-09-23 12:25:17 · answer #1 · answered by Vanessa~Yeah!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the stuff is worth anything, sell it on ebay and then go out with the money you get from selling it on there!
that's what I'd do! lol
Actually, I did do that to my ex. He bought me this $300 dress for his sister's wedding and I sold it on ebay after we broke up for like $80. I didn't care about the "loss" of money since I hadn't paid for it in the first place.
2006-09-23 19:30:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a pity party letter... but anyway get rid of it anyway u want just do it now while its fresh!
2006-09-23 19:30:36 · answer #3 · answered by ~Niecee~ âË» âË» ♂ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say, put it in a box and store it away. Who know's, you might end up back together. NEVER THROW AWAY HIS STUFF OR GIVE IT AWAY!!!
2006-09-23 19:24:34 · answer #4 · answered by Amy's Man 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
classy
2006-09-23 19:24:36 · answer #5 · answered by markwett 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋