this a first time i am trying to ask a girl out. I have the confidence in my mind but when i am near her i am tight lipped. What should i do about it. I am in the 10th grade. is this a good thing to say. wanna go out or would you be my gf.
2006-09-23 12:16:52 · 15 answers · asked by pentium 4 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Mr. Pentium 4, you asked this question about a month ago. That answer was pretty good but not specific. You have to know a girl or know something about her to ask her out. You have to find something that you have in common. Ask one of her friends and ask the friend to please don't tell her, you just want to be friends. If you both like Middle Eastern food or want to be go go dancers, you have a reason to walk up to her and talk with her. You are getting tight lipped because you know you haven't done your homework or footwork yet. There are 26 girls in your school right now that want to go out with you and she may be one. But you do have to let them know something about you, your interests, etc. Relax. You have nothing to lose. We ALL have been rejected from time to time. That's the norm. It's no big deal. Girls are usually pretty good at letting us down. Better to find out but geez, who are you? What do you like to do, study, etc. Where are you going in life? Are you a sensitive, decent guy or are you a narcicist who is in love with himself and hopes others don't notice. What? She wants to know. We want to know. Good luck, kid.
2006-09-23 12:29:46 · answer #1 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she would like to go to a show or a certain event that you want to take her,make sure you give her time don't ask her the same day, example: would you like to go out with me friday(when you ask her it is a few days in advance) to a show or game whatever you choose. Do not ask her to be your gf you don't know her yet. Good luck
2006-09-23 19:24:34 · answer #2 · answered by starz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just walk up and say hey you wanna hang maybe go out sometime.
2006-09-23 19:20:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like a baseball game.
First base is "Eye contact".
Second base is saying "Hello".
Third base is asking "How you doing?"
Fourth base is asking "Did you get the homework assignment in Algebra? I'm afraid I missed it".
Fifth base is "Say, did you see the newspaper report about the
Sixth base is (after she tells you about one of her existential problems) "How do you feel about that?"
Seventh base is . . .
Okay, you've worked your way up to Twenty-third base, then you ask her if she'd like to go Roller-Skating
2006-09-23 19:59:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, dont just go over and say "wanna go out" or "be my gf?" u gotta let it take some time. ask her when its the best time.
2006-09-23 19:21:17 · answer #5 · answered by Casey_loves_yuhh<3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say "do you want to go out with me" or try to think of something creative
2006-09-23 19:21:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could start up a conversation with her and maybe as you are saying goodbye casually ask her if she would like to go to the movies or something.
2006-09-23 19:20:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're afraid to ask someone out, what you do is, first talk to her and get to know each other. then when you know each other fairly well, you ask her to the movies (or something else). get her # that night and phone her the next day and ask her out. (trust me this works)
2006-09-23 19:24:05 · answer #8 · answered by ς๏г๒เภ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say like hey you seem like a really nice girl and id like to get to know you better...maybe we could go hangout after school today or something like that
2006-09-23 20:44:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey ____ I really like hanging out with you, you're fun. Lets get together after school, ect ect.
2006-09-23 19:20:08 · answer #10 · answered by notsohated 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋