STOP talking behind your back!
I'm sure there are quite a few out there with some good or original answers to this dilemna so be a good person and help us desparate souls, thanks!
2006-09-23 12:16:15 · 11 answers · asked by The Global Community 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I actually like it when people talk about me behind my back. Even if it's nasty.
It flatters me to think that even though I am not around, they take the time out to talk about me.
I must be very important to them, lol.
2006-09-23 12:21:31 · answer #1 · answered by cat_the_aussie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to stop ppl for doing that. No matter what you do there not going to stop. They'll just be more careful you want find out about it.
Suggtion: If these ppl talking are claiming to be your friends, confornt them or stop being there friend, stop truesting them... some alone those lines.
2006-09-23 19:21:45 · answer #2 · answered by Sekkennight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know what a specific person is talking about behind your back just go up to them one day and just casually start talking about it even if it's about you. they will get so confused! and if you want you can take a camera and snap a pic of their face when you start talkin! that would be hilarious and it would probably work!
and if you want you can use it as blackmail! j/k, but not really, lol
2006-09-23 19:19:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront them straight to thier face and tell them exactly what you know and correct the rumor and tell them that you want it stopped then ask them waho told them and go to the next person and keep going down the line until you have confronted all of them that will let them know that you know and they will stop because that dont want the embarrassment of it happening again true they will probably find some other innocent person
2006-09-23 19:25:26 · answer #4 · answered by Aries Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people will always talk behind your back, theres nothing really you can do about it but feel flattered that you are the topic of there conversations...you must be really special!
2006-09-23 19:18:14 · answer #5 · answered by Melia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them. Show them that you don't care and they would just eventually lose interest. If you let them see they've bothered you then their mission is accomplished. Don't give them that satisfaction.
Good Luck!
2006-09-23 19:29:29 · answer #6 · answered by I Am Jack's Wasted Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to them. Let them know that you don't hate them and you'd appreciated it if they would stop pretending that they hated you. Keep everything lighthearted and act like it's no big deal. (mostly because it's not a big deal)
2006-09-23 19:18:30 · answer #7 · answered by notsohated 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do anything that would give them a reason to talk about you. or get on medication for paranoid schizophrenia!
2006-09-23 20:04:12 · answer #8 · answered by jules 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them u hate it or talk behind theirs
2006-09-23 19:18:36 · answer #9 · answered by Vanessa~Yeah!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront them in frount of alot of people and ask them to stop or eles.
2006-09-23 19:18:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋