Im in 8th grade and i like this guy. I flirt with him alot and he flirts with me but i cant tell if hes just horney or if hes really interested. For most guys they know u like them if you flirt with him but i think he thinks im just being playful and that i dont like him in a serious way. But i dont want to just say "i like you alot"
Please Help!!!
2006-09-23 12:09:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get to know each other a bit more; when you see him alone, don't just flirt. If the only thing you do when you're with him is flirt, he'll just think you're a regular flirt. Ask him questions about himself, and give him the oppurtunity to tell himself his interests. Also, tell him about YOURSELF so that you guys can equally get an idea of how you two like each other. Afterwards, if he likes you a lot, he'll want you for dating material. But, remember that he's only in 8th grade. They're pretty immature then. I'm not saying that the guys in my grade are any more mature (I'm in 9th.), but don't expect him to warm up to you that quick. But try getting to know him as a friend instead of a flirt, and things should move up a bit.
2006-09-23 12:14:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 13 years old. How sad that you have left your childhood behind and at this age you know what it is all about and you know you need a guy to complete your image as experienced. At 13 you are assessing whether or not other 13 14 year old boys - that's boys - are "horney." This guy undoubtedly senses or has heard something of your reputation and that is all you are going to get. Remember, girls talk, boys don't. Your girlfriends, all of whom are in competition with you, make sure that you have a rep. And your parents? Do they let you talk and pine away and have photos on your bedroom wall of guys, guys, guys? You are in the 8th grade and you have to be really prepared to enter 9th or you become a laughing stock. You should be devoted to homework and achievement. At 13, boys are cute but innocent. Believe me, honey, you are already into dangerous territory. You are a girl, a young girl and nothing more. Thank god!
2006-09-23 12:18:06 · answer #2 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, "This Guy" let's call him Noah. So you think Noah likes you because he flirts with you, but in a playful way so it could be a joke?
My advise is get on the topic of liking people and ask him if he had ever liked you or if he does. He could still lie to you but it would in most cases be obvious if he was lying
2006-09-23 12:15:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thousands of year old secret is this. Show sincere interest when he speaks, be a good listener and ask questions after a while he will look at you differently and start to really see you.It is that simple.
2006-09-23 12:21:04 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 15:44:21 · answer #5 · answered by alsobrook 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heres some directions:1-find out if he has a girlfriend 2-see if you can get hold of one of his close friends and ask if he likes you 3- see if ya'll can hang out togther in a group4-just start hanging out more.
2006-09-23 12:19:03 · answer #6 · answered by Jave 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you want to be obvious? If he likes you he will tell you and if he doesn't then it's not the end of the world. Ask his friends if he likes you because they should know.
good luck
2006-09-24 08:07:06 · answer #7 · answered by soccersobczyk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
babe, something like this has happened to me before. except i was the guy the girl wanted to tell. and I didnt have any idea that she liked. she told me knowing that i liked every girl i saw, (that was hot of course) but i ended up dating her. we've been going steady for about 5 months now.
2006-09-23 12:13:19 · answer #8 · answered by skull loner 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well gurl im in da eight grade and i know how it feels. but u should just write him a note and ask him do he like u, then if he say yes u can just ket him no that u like him 2.
2006-09-23 12:18:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are too young to be "serious" so just tell him you think he's nice, cute, whatever and see what he says, it can't hurt
2006-09-23 12:42:12 · answer #10 · answered by mitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋