2006-09-23 12:05:32 · 39 answers · asked by Jinx 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No way, if he makes you happy and you make him happy, it would be a shame to throw it away over a false issue like the differences in age.
2006-09-23 12:09:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think chronological age would be a problem between 38 and and 28. It isn't bad at all. If you are attracted to a person that age you should definitely pursue getting to know them. A ten-year age difference is significant at different times in a person's life, like between a 15 year old who meets a 25 year old! That's not good. By the time you are 28, you've been out in the world and know yourself pretty well---well enough to go out with people you are attracted to---even 38 year olds.
2006-09-23 12:09:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was 28 when I married my 38-year old husband. Our marriage ended last year, not because of the age difference but because of other reasons. The most difficult thing to get over with that big of an age gap is, you are going to go through stages of your life that he has already gone through, and he may be a little bit impatient with you - or you may want to do things that he has already done and does not want to do again. If you truly love each other, keep the lines of communication open and talk over the little things before they become big problems.
Good luck!!
2006-09-23 12:07:59 · answer #3 · answered by dawniedawn67 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think if you love someone. It shouldn't matter the age, as long its nothing, that will get you into trouble. The only way it would be wrong if he; is married and only using you to have sex. But it is okay to date someone that is older then you. You are young and have time, to know what you want... Love is difficult thing to, go through; especially if that somebody is 10 years older. So if things don't work out, then your still young, to look at things differently. Well good luck in your relationship.
2006-09-23 12:18:38 · answer #4 · answered by blade_the_daywalker_4ever 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No- Honestly please dont let people every try to tell you differently either. I am 24 almost 25 and my boyfriend is 37. We are a very happy couple. Have known one another 8 years now but only started dating 4 months ago and I am 8 weeks pregnant. True we were at different points in our life but we have come together and realized that we both needed to settle down and live the finer life. We actually got pregnant only 2 months into our dating. We were shocked at first because it is a first for me and he already has two boys ages 10,14. So please dont let anyone tell you differently ever. If you are both happy that is what truly counts.
2006-09-23 12:11:09 · answer #5 · answered by plaster_employment 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am 43 and my wife is 33, We met 14 years ago you do the math. We did well for quite a whi;le we just grew apart. I'm not saying it's an age thing or a maturity thing. Just be sure you undersand each other and were they are in life and were they are headding. We both changed, some for good, some for worse. We are now seperated. for the second and final time.
2006-09-23 12:09:00 · answer #6 · answered by burrgump 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know but my wife is 11 years younger than I am and we have been married over 10 years now.
2006-09-23 12:08:59 · answer #7 · answered by mr. Bob 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not at all i am 38 and married to a 51 year old and there almost 13 years differents in our ages we been married 22 years so age has nothing to do with it only what in your heart and they are good to you all that counts
2006-09-23 12:10:33 · answer #8 · answered by angela h 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, there is 1 old man that I know who is like 84 and he's dating a 19 year old girl! I think it's for the money...
2006-09-23 12:07:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No of course not. I think age is irrelevant once you get over a certain age. Im 25 and my partner is 30 not that the age gap is that big but i dont even notice it and i prefere it that way.
2006-09-23 12:08:14 · answer #10 · answered by CHIMP 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋