Shes always following me, buying me stuff, wanting to talk to me, sitting on my bed, coming into my room uninvited and stuff like that. Its not that I don't like her, its just she drives me mental. We have completely different personalities, and I don't like hers. She finds all this stupid stuff cute or funny, shes always speaking for me, as if she knows what I'm going to say or what I'm thinking(she never does!), and she likes cuddling up on the sofa. I like my space, which I normally have enough of, but she always choses the worse times to bug me. I'm not a touchy feely person, and I don't find her very fun to be around most of the time. You probably think I'm a horrible person, but you can't like everyone, despite how hard you try. We have fun together sometimes, but theres times where she just won't leave me alone. Mums always siding with her, but she just doesn't get it. By the way shes 20(she studies from home) and I'm 16. She also doesn't have any friends cause she was bullied..
2006-09-23 11:57:12 · 7 answers · asked by Steph :-) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I have told her. Several times. She just doesn't get it. I like her, and don't want to hurt her, but no matter what angle I put across, she just gets upset. I want to be friends, but I value "me" time.
2006-09-23 12:01:56 · update #1
I don't know why shes buying me stuff. Cause she has money? Shes really generous like my other sister. Its bad cause it makes me feel guilty, and she uses it against me when shes mad at me. I would prefer she didn't but she refuses it, and sometimes mum and dad can't afford to buy me a bus ticket. Do you think our ages has anything to do with it? I kind of wish I had mum and dad to myself.
2006-09-23 12:04:19 · update #2
She also "mothers" me sometimes, telling me what to do...stuff like that. Its so annoying, its like "Dude, I'm 16, I do have a brain of my own!"
2006-09-23 12:05:18 · update #3
Her boyfriend died from a blood clot last year... I know shes not going to date anyone for a long long time. She wants to make friends, but shes too scared to leave the house, because of these losers that gave her a hard time a few years ago. I have tried talking to her, telling her that theres no way they would still be living here...most people move out once they finish highschool and either start their own life in a new place with a cool job, or go to university right? Well Ive told her that, but shes still scared. I'm quite shy too, but I don't let it rule my life.
2006-09-23 12:10:24 · update #4
well she probably bugs u soo much because she doesnt have any friends and if she is bothering you That much thentalk to her about it dont be worried to talk to her about it if hs e loves you that much she will understand give her some standards tell her where her boundries are(don't be too Harsh)and look for some1 to hang out with her find her a friend or even a boyfriend to keep her mind off of you , try finding things that you and her Bother like to do find something in common with her I am sure you and your sister will get along. i pray it works out for you and her!!
2006-09-23 12:05:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry but thats mean she just trying to be your friend despite she doesnt have any!!!! so try being nice to her and if she keeps bugging you talk to her and tell her to stop!!
2006-09-23 12:01:32 · answer #2 · answered by Double A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Siblings fight! Its a fact of life....both of you love each other. ya'll probably too much alike thats why you dont get along...
2006-09-23 12:00:41 · answer #3 · answered by Melia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem with my little brother & sister, they are sooooo annoying. tell your sister that it is bothering you!
But what is bad about her buying you stuff? : )
2006-09-23 12:01:40 · answer #4 · answered by danindude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should tell her she grown and get a life.
2006-09-23 12:01:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree talk to her she's yur sister
2006-09-23 12:02:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her not us
2006-09-23 12:00:07 · answer #7 · answered by Vanessa~Yeah!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋