Do you think of him as being week? I'm a sensitive guy, and i cry often while talking with my girlfriend about my feelings towards her, and i cry when she hurts me with some words unintentionally. She is also sensitive, but instead of crying she gets mad. SO practically in our relationship i cry much more than she does. i'm 21 she is 17.
So girls .. does an over-sensitive guy seems less manly to you?
2006-09-23 11:44:15 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm not a weak or sensitive guy in life .. i'm only sensitive when it comes to love ...
2006-09-23 11:47:31 · update #1
lol .. it's not like i cry every moment infront of her ... i just happens sometimes .... but i cry more when i'm alone
2006-09-23 11:56:04 · update #2
I think it is wonderful that you are so in touch with your emotions and feel that you can express them. Sounds like she is not there yet. She is not clear with her emotions or able to be vulnerable to cry, it feels "safer" to be angry. I think more men should be willing to share their emotions so openly. I applaud you.
**~~ A REAL MAN IS ABLE TO SHOW HIS EMOTIONS WITHOUT FEAR. THAT IS A TRUE MAN !!
2006-09-23 11:48:23 · answer #1 · answered by Michele S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex bf used to cry, once harder than any woman i'd ever seen even at a funeral ( when I told him I was going to leave him) it made me think he loved me, but in the rest of the relationship he didn't treat me well (which is why we broke up),
I used to feel bad for him, we even cried together once, and I used to see him as sensitive and a good human being for crying, but now i realize they were either crocodile tears or tears coming from a person weak of character. It just all depends on the situation. I;m still confused.
I don't know that i'll ever know, but if you cry a lot, you may want to evaluate that a little further because it may be a sign of social disorder or depression.
2006-09-23 18:52:17 · answer #2 · answered by coochie1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Would Rather Have A Guy That Shows Too Much Emotion Than Not Enough At All.
2006-09-23 18:47:25 · answer #3 · answered by cierra91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my boyfriend is the same way. I think it is a feeling of being comfortable so it is a good thing that you are comfortable you are around her and stuff. Yeah its very good, you are weak but if its for a good reason then you have all the right. There is nothing wrong with crying, everyone does it whether they say it or not, they do, boys and girls. good luck
2006-09-23 18:47:21 · answer #4 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guy only cries at very deep, deep emotional situations, and some sad movies. I am usually touched by his ability to feel, and the trust he shows me by doing it. If he cried like you did, I wouldn't have married him...somewhere, there is a girl who likes the kind of sensitive you are, you aren't with the right one.
2006-09-23 18:48:57 · answer #5 · answered by steelypen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it shows that you are a sensitive, caring person, & I like a guy who can show his sensitive side, most men think they have to act macho all of the time & THAT gets old, real quick. We all have feelings & its about time guys can finally show their true feelings, without being made fun of.
2006-09-23 18:57:19 · answer #6 · answered by yvonne p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really but it doesn't matter , you need to stop that crying it is a sign of weakness and if done in public it will be embarrasing to both you and your girlfriend. It's ok to cry but sometimes you need to hold back the tears and take it all.
2006-09-23 18:50:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now your not weak at all. Your're a regular person.But,once in a while hold back the water works. Also don't forget girls like sensitive guys... e
2006-09-23 18:55:50 · answer #8 · answered by Jave 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their is nothing wrong with a sensitive guy. At least you show
your feelings. Some men are afraid of how they feel.
2006-09-23 18:48:01 · answer #9 · answered by wHaT eVeR 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not at all. guys that are not afraid to show emotion are the real men. so no the over-sensitive guys do not seem less manly, just more manly!
2006-09-23 19:03:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋