I have a real hard time gaining weight and I eat tons of food. I am sort of shy around girls because im skinny.... Should I be?
5'8 125lbs short blonde spikey hair - green eyes
2006-09-23 11:38:37 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What you need to do is lift weights. I was scrawny all the time growing up. In fact at the end of high school I was your size 5'9 125 lbs. But I just lifted and now I'm 140 and it looks a lot better. Don't forget to lift your legs though. Most guys only do upper body, this is a mistake, it looks wierd.
2006-09-23 11:41:13 · answer #1 · answered by LuckyS7evin 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to be shy around the girls. Just be yourself and be down to earth while your at it. Trust me there are girls who like skinny guys. Not every girl cares about going out with big muscular guys or what you would call jocks. It all boils down to what a person likes and how they feel about you. Don't concentrate on your weight because it's not an issue. There are tons of skinny guys that get very pretty girls everyday. Girls like a guy that's confident about himself. You have to work on this and tell yourself that you look great no matter what your weight is. Whether your skinny, fat, muscular, or whatever, girls will be drawn to you if you have confidence about yourself. Trust me i'm sure you look just fine. Go ou there and do your thang!!!!
2006-09-23 18:47:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, i am feelin u. I am the same exact way, i am 5'9 and like 120 lbs! i have a really fast matabo n sumthin wiit my thyroid or sumthin. Though I am skinny, there r chicks who still dig me cause i'm cute and smart, something i suppose girls look for. i am also a really nice person and i'm sure u r too, which is what i wish all the girls liked but unfortunately, some of them just have sand in their vaginas. but honestly, don't feel ashamed of anything, you can't change the way your body is, that's just like and if there is a girl that does like you but doesn't like the fact that ur skinny, just be kind to her as always and show that the weight of a person has nothing to do in a relationship. i kno this was just for the girls but it's an opinion from a guy, sumthin sometimes a lil better! well, good luck with ur weight problem and if it really bothers u that much drink a bunch of protein shakes!
2006-09-23 18:46:12 · answer #3 · answered by bobbytkrq21 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about being skinny... in fact, skinny guys are super adorable! And all girls really care about is your personality (at least the decent girls do)... But I agree with the others, if you do want to be bigger, try lifting weights so you can have a good muscular bulk, and not fat.
Good luck!
2006-09-23 18:46:05 · answer #4 · answered by ~~$Em-J$~~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should not be so concerned with your appearance. Girls really tend to go for the guy who listens to them, eye contact and has a sense of humor. If you are concerned about your weight, try more protein or take a weight gain powder supplement and lift weights. There is someone out there for you,stop trying so hard.
Good luck !
2006-09-23 18:42:51 · answer #5 · answered by Michele S 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I like skinny guys, my husband is 6'2" and weighed about 135 when we met...of course now 9 years later he started drinking a little more and that helped the weight come on, now he weighs aout 180 I think he looks good now, but I have always thought that noo matter what his weight was.
2006-09-23 18:43:26 · answer #6 · answered by hahaha 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't really like skinny. But pump your muscles by lifting weight. You should be able to gain more weight without actually getting fat. Oh, and don't forget to change your diet while lifting weight. People at the gym should tell you what you should eat.
2006-09-23 18:43:08 · answer #7 · answered by latgal73 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hay.
Your looks really don't matter okay, so if yor nice then she going to like you for the way you act, not the way you look, it's what is inside that counts, not how skinny you are, so don't worry about how skinny or how chubby you are, it doesn't matter just be your self.
It was inside your heart.
Teresa.
2006-09-23 18:45:05 · answer #8 · answered by Minnie May 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well for myself, no i dont like skinny guys but each person has their own tastes and im sure theres some girls out there who do like skinny men so dont give up
2006-09-23 18:44:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont be shy around girls cause ur skinny! i know this guy who's skinny and weighs like 120-125lbs and he's CUTE!! so dont be shy, u probably look fine!
2006-09-23 18:40:59 · answer #10 · answered by chocohot_12 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋