Pleases help me, I know this guy who lives in england and me and him have been talking everyday for the past week. We have pictures of each other and he likes me for who i am. He's a real gentleman and we have so much in common. I mean you'd have to hear our conversations to actually understand. I need to know should I be falling head over heels for a guy half way around the world.
P.S. He feels the same way I do, i know it, thanks
2006-09-23 11:16:57 · 11 answers · asked by Kisa 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you shud def go for it .. me and my boyfrend have a long distance relationship and have completly bin head over heels for eachother for more than 4 yrs =) .. its tuff but its something .. visit him every summer or winter vacation me and my bf live in states that are next to eachother and visit about once month
2006-09-23 11:21:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you in your heart know if it can work. Are you willing to follow him. To move to England? Willing to move in with him? Make career choices for him? Conversations over the phone, internet, are usually painting a much more beautiful picture than it might be (love always does that to us :) and its a wonderful feeling ) but maybe when you spend some time in england or live with him you may find differences that are tangible versus emtional and you may not be able to stand it. All I can say is that you need to visit him. See what its like to spend long periods of time with him and slowly increase that. If by then you still feel the same way then you can make a big decision, but in relationships like this there needs to be a lot of trust, patience, respect, and most of all the drive to make it work. It takes a lot of time to make a decision and I doubt a week is enough.
Good luck!
2006-09-23 18:35:03 · answer #2 · answered by coochie1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does his wife or g/f know he talks to you? You never know who you are really talking to on the internet. The pics he sends you could be of some guy down the street or his cousin Vinnie. He could look like Comic Book guy from The Simpsons or actually be a 75 year old pedophile for all you know.
2006-09-23 18:22:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to be carefull im on the same situation right now i met my husband online i thought he was great but he just put me in hell in a way from his attitude temper and being strees and quiet all the time its different if you will see him in person 3x a week so that you will known him better its so easy to pretend for the men but its so hard for our side to get a heart broken dont let the roof come down on your head. dont be one of us,i mean we just think about our feeling not our head you make this work at the same time.....
2006-09-23 18:38:12 · answer #4 · answered by lilbug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance AND internet? I don't think this one's gonna work out.
There are exceptions to everything don't get me wrong, but the odds are against you, and it's only been a week after all....
2006-09-23 18:21:21 · answer #5 · answered by shortee807 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he makes the effort to meet u then It might work
2006-09-23 18:21:29 · answer #6 · answered by NYC-BIGCAT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i have to ask how long have you bben talking to him ?
take your time and let grow dont go running just yet ..
have you phoned himor has he phoned you? or it all email ?
if you feel this way it will not go away to soon so take you time ..
2006-09-23 18:22:26 · answer #7 · answered by erf1960 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know wht u mean
there is a 30% chance plzz be carefull
2006-09-23 18:20:39 · answer #8 · answered by Angad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if there's anyway for you two to meet, then go for it. but if there's no way, try and stick to guys that live close to you.
2006-09-23 18:20:23 · answer #9 · answered by sweethyedreamer213 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEAH!!!!! same story with me. don't let distance ruin everything.
2006-09-23 18:20:57 · answer #10 · answered by iamadam'sgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋