well my little brother has turned into a brat he always hits me and tells me to go die. he lies to my mom when i tell on him but he says that isn't true and i get really irriatated and just want to punch his face what should i do plz.
2006-09-23 11:11:34 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
try beign nice to hgim listen to him the firts time take him to the movies to the park be a good friend.and sister
2006-09-23 11:16:31 · answer #1 · answered by true-mysteryfrom chinese wish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is typical behavior of a little brother who is wanting big sis's attention.
As a mother of 4 boys ages 22, 18, 16, and 9 I have been through this many times. I will tell you what I told my children.
Take some time out of each day, even just 15 - 30 mins to spend some quality time with him and it won't happen over night but eventually he will learn to accept the times when you don't want to be around him and he will become less annoying.
During this time tell him that this is your time together and that when you are done you want to have time with your friends or whatever. Don't let anything interfere with your time together. Tell your friends you will call them back later. Let your little brother know that he is important to you but you do have times that you have to be away from him and these times are important to you also. He won't understand right away but in time he will get use to it.
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bad advice.... "You should probably tape him the whole day without him knowing obviously. Then when you tell on him and he lies, show your mom the tape. He will be punished. If u decide not to tape him, have a private conversation with your mom and tell her that he really did do those things and that he was lying. Your mom should believe you just like she believed your brother or else what kind of mother would that be?"
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Siblings should know that they can depend on you, you should never rat out your sibling (especially for the sole purpose of getting them into trouble) unless they are doing something that can seriously hurt them or others. However sitting down with your mother in a calm and respectful manner and express your concerns may do some good.
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more bad advice...."When he wants something from you telling him NO.. when he wants to watch a certain TV show tell him NO.. until he changes his behavior there is nothing else you can do
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How would you feel if you were needing attention from someone and they further ignored or aggravated you?
Children (and teenagers, and some adults, for that matter) aren't equipped with the communication skills they need in order to effeciently express their needs, this is why they "act up". The inability to communicate a need makes anyone frustrated, don't you feel frustrated when you can't get someone to understand where you are coming from?
2006-09-23 18:19:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is your brother? He has to learn how to respect you. I have just had a friend tell me about her two children getting into a fight..She has a 17 year old and a 10 year. Since the 10 year flipped his sister, she hurt her elbow she need to be seen at the hospital.. the hospital called the police and yes he was arrested for assault he went to juvenile hall.. so by all means don't hit your brother but if your parents can't step in and be a solutions solver. Stop being nice to him and give him some of his own medicine.. When he wants something from you telling him NO.. when he wants to watch a certain TV show tell him NO.. until he changes his behavior there is nothing else you can do for him..
Respect is a must.. its appears he is hell on wheels..tape record him in action , you will have proof on how he behaves. Play it back to him.. maybe he can't hear how he sounds, how how he is hurting you by doing mean things.. express to him how he is hurting you.
2006-09-23 18:22:35 · answer #3 · answered by M M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably tape him the whole day without him knowing obviously. Then when you tell on him and he lies, show your mom the tape. He will be punished. If u decide not to tape him, have a private conversation with your mom and tell her that he really did do those things and that he was lying. Your mom should believe you just like she believed your brother or else what kind of mother would that be?
2006-09-23 18:18:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could do what my friend Chuck's sister did to him when he was 10 years old and acting up. She got three of her friends and they held him down and tickled him for like an hour or so, and made him promise he'd be good, and I saw it, and it worked! I was scared to death they would get me next. It only works if he's way ticklish, though. it doesn't leave no bruises, and the moms don't say anything because he's the guy.
2006-09-23 18:31:26 · answer #5 · answered by Paul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say little brother...well theres your first big advantage!o.k.
try telling your Mother in a very grown up way, be very calm..and just tell her things that may make her concerned...
The first things you need to do...is learn to hit him harder, he will then stop...so don't be too scared of him....or...say to him you will call the police! see if he likes that answer?...you can bluff him, into being scared.Hes being a bully....and you have to make him KNOW your not scared of him!!! first rule of this problem.The more he knows you don't like it...the more he will do it!...So be real brave, and give him some-of-what he is giving you.o.k.
2006-09-23 18:48:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hits you grab his balls hard and make him jump up and down like a pogo stick and slap him in the face.LOL! Chances are he will quit or being sounding like Michael Jackson for a while.
2006-09-23 18:27:04 · answer #7 · answered by summer k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Duck Tape him to a Chair
2006-09-23 18:12:34 · answer #8 · answered by tarafarrah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a camera or record sumttin he says so u can catch him on action n show ur mom...or what i did embarress him really badly in from of all his friends da will make him stop!
2006-09-23 18:13:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well britt, ide just have a sit down cho wow with the fokes, let them know how much this is starting to get on your nerves. if they dont do anything try sitting him down and just let him know you love him but if it keeps up, your not gonna! good luck hun
2006-09-23 18:29:17 · answer #10 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋