2006-09-23 10:54:48 · 20 answers · asked by BLONDBOMB 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most of the answers that I have seen so far involve lust not love.
If you are, indeed, in love and not in rut than what trait most men and women are attracted to is "comfort". When a Katrina is approaching who do you want to be with? If it's cold and rainy who do you want to cuddle up get comfortable with? After a hard days work what do you look for, big boobs, a big package, how tall or how old someone is? Or someone whom you like to be around? I've been around, too. The fires aren't dead, but after the flames have been satisfied I want to hang around and be comfortable.
2006-09-23 11:10:50 · answer #1 · answered by deepndswamps 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
It differs from person to person. It depends on the situation.
First impressions normally focus on the external view of the person. Further impressions will then focus on the inner views of the person.
The first thing Guys may look at (either one, some or all of them):
1. Face / Looks
2. Hair
3. Boobs
4. Butt
5. Legs
6. Figure
7. Dressing
8. Personality / Character
The first thing Girls may look at (either one, some or all of them):
1. Height - Taller than her? Can she wear heels with him?
2. Hair / Hairstyle
3. Humor - Makes her laugh
4. Pleasant Face
5. Size / Built / Chest / Tight Butt etc.
6. Personal Grooming
7. Personality / Character
2006-09-23 10:59:43 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many people in this world that don't allow themselves the privilege of falling in love because:
- They are interested in marriage or relationships for particular reasons (money;sex;etc.)
But when you fall in love with a person, man or woman, it is usually with someone that brings something to your life that is completely new, different, attractive, unique, mysterious, and always entertaining. Most guys like a girl that can keep him entertained and always on his toes.
Intrigue is the magic ingredient and this varies from person to person. Someone might love your curly red hair because they grew up in Mexico where redheads are rare., whereas it disgusts someone else because maybe it reminds them of their mother or of somone they don't like it just all depends.
The day you fall in love you realize how others fallin love as well.
2006-09-23 11:24:26 · answer #3 · answered by coochie1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot things, but they fall in ove with the uniqueness of you. You are your own person. That's what they like. They like girls who are different and know what they want out of life. It wouldn't be bad if you knew how to cook either. Like the saying goes the best way to get to a man's heart is through his stomach. They fall for your inner beauty.
2006-09-23 11:00:13 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle Annette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's real love that they feel and not just infatuation, it's more than just a sexual attraction.
It's a woman's personality, maybe her looks (but not necessarily) and a desire to be with her and share his life with her. You can't pin point specific traits, each man can find different traits that attract him.
2006-09-23 11:00:48 · answer #5 · answered by Dale 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Different people fall in love for different reasons. It is really hard to say that men fall in love with a woman for any particular reason.
People in general, fall in love for many different reasons.
The only absolute answer is, when you fall in love with someone, you know it!
2006-09-23 10:58:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think guys just look at the body and how skinny they are....coz i was fat and no guys looked at mke when i lost the wait i had over 6 guys wanting me...then guess what happen after i gained it again?? but some guys which r hard to find nd ar rara hardly even care but those r the keepers nd they get married the first
2006-09-23 11:01:07 · answer #7 · answered by pretty in pink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its looks that attract me to a girl first but if shes really shy and not able to hold a conversation its a turn off. I like it when girls are a bit flirty
2006-09-23 10:58:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that's a loaded question. they fall for compassion, laughter, maternal instinct, and an understanding that she wants to take care of you the same way you have an insatiable desire to take care of her. I'm 26 and it hasn't happened to me in awhile..i miss the feeling cause it's wonderful.
2006-09-23 10:58:01 · answer #9 · answered by markwett 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she can wake up next 2 and not need any makeup and breath smells fresh when they wake up that means she takes more pride in herself than u could imagine if she does that for herself imagine what she would do for u to make u fall in love with her.
2006-09-23 11:01:06 · answer #10 · answered by q45dip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋