I love him so much two weeks ago he broke up with me and this week i told some of my friends to go ask him if he still likes me and if he misses me and why he broke up w/ me...my friends told me he does miss me he does still like me and he didn't like when i flirted with guys. then the next day my friend told me he said he was going to ask me out this week or next week because he wasnt ready for a realationship...?i had no idea what that meant so now im waiting...but also after school on another day my friend was talking to him again and he told her that he does want to go out with me but he said how is he supposed to trust me... but its only flirting nothing really serious i really like him a lot he seems a lot more happier since the day my friends went up to him he smiles a lot more and yesterday he kept on staring at me at the bus stop. how can i show him he can trust me i have tried to stop talking to guys what what else should i dohe wants me back he just doesnt trust me plz help!
2006-09-23 10:51:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should go up to talk to him instead of just simply waiting. Tell him what he really means to you and say that you are totally committed to him if only he gives you a chance. A flirt is a flirt but that's something you're willing to give up for him. the foundation of a relationship isn't love but trust and you need to ask him for his trust in you. There's no real way for you to prove it buh to straight out tell him. Let him decide... if he doesn't trust you, you're relationship won't go any where
2006-09-23 10:57:01 · answer #1 · answered by ju5sm3h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you did not mean to hurt him and that you will stop flirting and that you want to prove to him that he can trust you. Ask him to tell you when you are flirting if you do not realize it so you will know what behaviors need to change. If he will not take you back after that, then you will just have to give it time. And stop flirting.
2006-09-23 18:22:11 · answer #2 · answered by Laura 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's being immature and jealous for no reason. There is nothing wrong with innocent flirting as long as you don't carry it too far. If he has a problem with you flirting, then he has self-confidence issues. He obviously is not secure enough with himself to be able to deal with this. Talk to him and reassure him that you are doing nothing wrong and that if he has a problem with it, then believe me, he is not worth your time. Don't stop being yourself for anybody. There are plenty of good fish in the sea and if he won't grow up, you'll just move on. It's his problem now.
2006-09-23 18:00:20 · answer #3 · answered by pussnboots333 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait. He'll figure it out. Stay away from the guys, maybe flirt w/ him a little bit. But mostly wait.
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2006-09-23 17:55:10 · answer #4 · answered by Lucky Ducky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't hear what you wanted the last 3 times you asked this question?
2006-09-23 17:54:29 · answer #5 · answered by They call me ... Trixie. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should try to get him to trust u tell him that u would do anything to hurt him and that u mean alot to him and u dont want to lose him
2006-09-23 18:05:02 · answer #6 · answered by kasi_lynn1269 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him u realy lov him n didnot mean to break his trust n tell him u realy realy realy love sooner or later he will come bacj coz who can dump a pretty girl lik u
2006-09-23 17:56:57 · answer #7 · answered by Angad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit flirting
2006-09-23 17:54:45 · answer #8 · answered by A soldiers wife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you like him give him respect. he is jealous and don't want his girlfriend to talk to other guys.
2006-09-23 17:57:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him. He can't control your life.
2006-09-23 17:55:15 · answer #10 · answered by Tim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋