I have not been out on the town on a date or to meet people what should I do? All I do is talk on here with men I have no life and no freedom.
2006-09-23 09:58:10 · 16 answers · asked by *~Sad Girl~* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok I move in with my dad he sick also I have two kids. I am here to help my dad. I am stuck in every type of way.
2006-09-23 10:07:03 · update #1
Stop talking to people online. Meet people. If you're in school, get involved in the social scene. If not, get a sibling, or someone you at least know to go with you to places like concerts or small, almost retro events. There are tons of people to meet there. Once you meet people, you can think of fun things to do and you'll never have time to yourself again. You'll be begging people to let you have a night in.
2006-09-23 10:01:14 · answer #1 · answered by lovegivingadvice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly? Turn off your PC for 30 days (no cheating), go to church each Sunday, find a community centre and join an adult sport club...nothing too active, but something fun, like badminton or volleyball...if sports is not your gig (it's not mine).
Try a book club at the local library.
Stay out of the bars for the first few months, most of the men you meet there have something else on their mind.
2006-09-23 10:03:53 · answer #2 · answered by Luc S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of that stale comfort zone you cocooned yourself in.
It's time you pull yourself up by the stiletto strings and go out and meet some real people and men. Stop wasting time and live a little. Good Luck!
2006-09-23 10:04:31 · answer #3 · answered by Mama Mia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you first need to decide how badly you need that 'life' and 'freedom'. Then, you will need to get out of the house and start meeting new people.
2006-09-23 10:00:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing to do if you are unhappy with your current situation is to get up, turn off the PC and go out. If you can't find anyone to go with you, just go anyway. It isn't always the easiest thing to do, I know, but it is the best way to be sure of a change. You can't plan, just do.
2006-09-23 10:01:33 · answer #5 · answered by Drewp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well talking to us is better than nothing. At least you get more honesty on yahoo answers.
I'd love to have a meal with someone like you in a restaurant. That would be really nice.
2006-09-23 10:02:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol go out buy A cheap but nice cocktail dress (in case something spills on it) go to a local club if you can if not go to a restaurant with a girl friend. look around for some guy you might be interested in. flirt with him using body language if you likes you back he should come and get your number.
2006-09-23 10:03:48 · answer #7 · answered by britt-britt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simply GET OUT find a activity you like to do and join a club..get a job meet people that way..volunteer in you r community ..you will never find anyone if you dont put yourself out there..
2006-09-23 10:01:05 · answer #8 · answered by Alli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what are you waiting on? Him or them to come to your door? It isn't going to happen sweetheart! You have to get out of that chair dress yourself up and go out somewhere for a few drinks you never know who you will meet and it will atleast get you out! Go on go out! Don't be afraid to go by yourself!!!!
Good Luck to you! You have to get up though and go because they won't come to you!
Always Amy
2006-09-23 10:02:26 · answer #9 · answered by heart2heart27958 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to meet people who you can see everyday or frequently so you can get to know them and become friends. invite them to places that helps a lot in a relationship even if its just friends.
2006-09-23 10:01:10 · answer #10 · answered by celinuchis90 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋