dating this guy for about a month now and our intimacy is incredible, like I've never had before. He makes me smile and I feel like I'm getting attached to him. How do you know for sure that you might be falling in love? I'm so scared of falling for him and him not reciprocating that I'm holding myself back. Do you think God is the only one who can let love in? Thanks for your opinion
2006-09-23 09:51:46 · 11 answers · asked by ooolala 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I found that when I was falling in love, it gets harder and harder to say goodbye to him each day. It's like you fell empty whenever he is not around, almost like a part of you is missing. You feel like you would give up anything in the world, just to make him happy. He becomes more important to you than anything else around, and you feel like you can't live without him.
I know these are sometimes the signs of puppy love too. But you will know when you are truly in love. I had some of these signs with guys I dated in HS and college, but I never KNEW until I met my husband. God will also let you know when you meet THE ONE, whether he is it, or it is someone else. At that time, it will be mutual. Just go with the flow. Don't throw your heart out there, but don't hold it back either. It's possible it may not be true love, and you might get hurt. But each experience is meant to prepare you for the one you ARE going to marry. Every bad relationship I had, I now see prepared me for my husband. I needed to be with them to make me strong enough. If you hold back, not only will you not ever have a chance to see the one God puts in front of you, but you will never be prepared if it is someone else.
Just keep praying about it, and keep on enjoying your time with him. Even if this is not true love, these are the best times of your life, enjoy them. Good luck.
2006-09-23 10:02:54 · answer #1 · answered by Laura 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he makes you smile and he makes you happy that is one clue . and that the intimacy is incredible like you have never had before is another way that you can tell that you are falling in love. that is just my opinion . but dont let fear of him not feeing the same way stop you becasue you will never know unless you just go for it.i know you are scared but you will never truly know how he feels or how both of you feel unless you go with what your heart tells you . good luck sweetie!
2006-09-23 09:57:52 · answer #2 · answered by angel 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You just know, simple as that. I'm 33, been in several relationships and many times thought it was love, but found out what it really was early in the summer. Nothing else was even close.
2006-09-23 09:58:42 · answer #3 · answered by Sunidaze 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it happen, sometimes we hold a shield that prevents us from falling in love but if u feel that its right then go for it. make sure he is the right guy first. U dont wanna get hurt thas why u dont wanna let go . i hope this helped
2006-09-23 09:53:52 · answer #4 · answered by sourgirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is something only u can feel with this guy, if he is the right one for u and u know it, and u feel this way then yes it is love!
2006-09-23 09:58:56 · answer #5 · answered by Paul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a complicated thing to explain, mainly because you have to feel it to know it, you can't just know how it feels without ever experiencing it.
Once your in love, you will definitely know. ♥
2006-09-23 09:58:15 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Butterfly Kisses♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will know.
And leave god at the door, or you won't have any fun with THAT kind of thinking.
2006-09-23 09:54:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
love is a wonderful thing and when you find it you will know just Hope you don't miss it when it hits you
2006-09-23 09:58:27 · answer #8 · answered by beth 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask God...he will guide you...did God give you the map?
2006-09-23 09:54:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you cant stop thinking about him.
2006-09-23 09:54:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋