It was some 2 years ago,I kinda liked a girl,she was my classmate at university but at that time I didn't have the guts to tell her. At the very same time I started another relationship which I'm still in. After one year somethings happened that I got sort of close to that girl(my classmate),we started going out every now and then and it caused my relationship with my girlfriend to fade away untill we broke up,when this girl(my clasmate) understood we had broken up,she started kinda loosing interest in me(I dono why,perhaps she just wanted to ruin our relationship) but I really liked her so much that I told her and then she started saying that our friendship is OK the way it is,we don't really need to spice it up,we don't need to limit each other and stuff the like.We broke up and I got together with my girfriend again untill after 3 months she started sending me sms and stuff like that.Now here's the thing,whatever I do,where ever I go I see her face and that's tearing me apart:(
2006-09-23 09:48:29 · 11 answers · asked by soroush_1363_ss 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is no good for you. Didn't you see that already. I think it is only the thrill of her contacting you again that is making you feel this way. She didn't want you when you were free,and only came back because she thinks you are in a good relationship again. I know what I would do in your place but I cannot speak for you. If you are the type to go with other girls when you are in a relationship then I think you should say goodbye to your present girlfriend. She seems like a really nice girl to me and she should not be made a fool of. Allow her to meet a good guy who will treat her with the respect she deserves and have a happy life. Not a life of misery wondering who has caught your eye this time. If you are really a good person and really like the wandering girl then again you owe it to your girlfriend to leave for good now, not later, and follow your heart. I think you will have your work cut out for you with that woman.
You know even if one is married it is of course still possible to feel attraction to another. The thing is that one knows where one's loyalty lies and it is possible to seperate the real from the fantasy. On a lighter note....There is no harm to look at the menu even though you have just had dinner ....just don't dine again.
2006-09-23 10:25:15 · answer #1 · answered by Learner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she doesn't want any commitment or she like the thrill of cheating. Psychologically it sounds like your thinking of her because she is playing "hard to get". This will create more interest for most men and it sounds like it has done this to you because you keep thinking about her. You have to ask yourself if you really want to be in the relationship that your in now. Aside from getting back together with this other girl. If you do then just realize that this is psychology playing and to let "this friend' go. Focus on the future that you will be having with your current girlfriend and move forward instead of delving into the past.
2006-09-23 16:54:40 · answer #2 · answered by X 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're so fickle.
You just created another mess by going back to the old girlfriend while continuing with feelings for the classmate.
2006-09-23 16:55:21 · answer #3 · answered by Patricia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you know who you truly love more than the other. You have to really search your feelings and why you like/love each of them and make a decision. You have to act now or you are going to crash and burn real quick with the one you really want.
2006-09-23 17:05:45 · answer #4 · answered by susanashotsextoy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, the horrible truth.
You're obsessed with one of these girls, but you're not in LOVE with either of them. Date and go to a lot of social functions until you find someone you really care about.
The day will come when you look back and shiver at the thought of either of these girls. Trust me.
2006-09-23 16:53:17 · answer #5 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like she only wants you when you're not available....its like a game. she doesn't really like you but just the excitement of not being able to have you. She's fu*ked up in the head. And you need to just keep her as a friend...if you keep your distance with her and just be friends then it'll work out in your advantage. just be distant from her and she'll keep trying to get you to want her...its a game with this girl...she's not worth it. You should learn to like someone whose not into messing with your head.
2006-09-23 16:58:57 · answer #6 · answered by SuperChic3955 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it's basically like this: she doesn't want you and going to make sure that you can't be happy with anyone else. Cut ties with her, get her out of your life and move on. She is NOT good for you!
2006-09-23 16:53:34 · answer #7 · answered by Sunidaze 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to make a decision and quit coming and going other wise ur gonna spend ur whole life undecided, obviously u have a thing for ur classmate and ur girlfriend is ur rebound girl so quit hurting her and make a decision.
2006-09-23 16:56:53 · answer #8 · answered by sourgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it may take some courage, but go straight to her and ask her what she wants from you.
2006-09-23 16:50:55 · answer #9 · answered by minoru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up.
2006-09-23 16:50:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋