2006-09-23 09:35:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
its just a phase in life .....the only way to get over it is to get involved in some sort of acttivity where you can interact with people
2006-09-23 09:39:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fourteen months ago I almost made the biggest mistake of my life. I was contemplating killing myself after I lost my darling husband after he had been terminally ill for over 7 years. I prayed and prayed that God would heal him and not take him from me but that prayer was not answered and I lost him. On my way to the funeral home one day, I thought that all I had to do was run my van into the phone pole and it would be all over and I wouldn't have to feel the pain that I knew would be with me for the rest of my time on this earth without my love. I would be with him. Well, reality set in fast and I realized that suicide was not the solution to my grief. If I would have taken my life I would have left my mother and my 4 sons with the pain of my taking my life and I knew that I had no right to do such a selfish act.
I have suffered the unbearable grief for 14 months now but with the help of my mom and children I am seeing the hope of a new life and the reason why sometimes we must go through tough times in order to grow spiritually. I see now, that God was merciful to us both by ending my husband's pain and taking him home to be with him..I know now that when I go to my death it will be in God's time and that my heaven will be to see my Chuck again. He is waiting just a heartbeat away. I know that the heart goes on.
2006-09-23 22:17:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who isn't? But what choice do we have other than to cowardly take our own lives. I'll never be that selfish, and I hope tha you will not either! Try to find something to make you happy. You need to be good to yourself because you deserve to be. Instead of feeling so sick and tired of your usual life, maybe you should try something new each day until you find your passion. You are not hear by accident.
2006-09-23 19:54:06 · answer #3 · answered by peaceseeker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every body are sick and tired . Penny less do sick . The rich too. So its a life. Money cant buy happiness. Do you see animals, or a bug, they are living. So do you. Animals do what they do. So what do you do in your life if you are granted a to life as a human ?
2006-09-23 17:07:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes. its always just the same ol, same ol. nothing ever changes, nothing will ever change, it goes on and on. it really doesnt help that i'm homesick and lonley, and in the middle of everything. somedays i just want a break from living. to just sit there in nothingness. then i can get up the next day and try again.
anyway, i hope your life will get better soon, maybe something will happen to make u smile. wutever it is, keep u chin up. dont let life beat u down.
2006-09-23 17:20:46 · answer #5 · answered by H*Less 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yah preety much ive delt with 1000's of people wanting advice on love, i've spent the better part of my life helping People out, so in the end im just feeling people need to start taking care of they're own well lets just say, Questions! i mean it has got so baD, that i need to take 30 mg of valium a day it's getting ugly here, so here it goes,ide say if you need good advice i sure woudent want you to ask me, cause im about ready to blow a fuse
2006-09-23 16:53:07 · answer #6 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There will always be a time when people wanted to commit suiceide, like I wanted to. I grabbed a small piece of blade and tried to cut it through my vains. I cried. I was miserable. Sometimes, I want to die, but some other times, I say to myself, "I thought you were gonna study to be a designer you stupid *****." I'm tired too.
2006-09-23 16:45:04 · answer #7 · answered by Carrot Cake 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i am, but i do think it is selfish to take your own life...think of how it would affect the people who love you..at times thats all that stops me...but is till find myself thinking about doing it almost everyday, im sick of the bullshit in life and the most of the people because most of them are stupid as*holes that dont care about anything but themselves.
2006-09-23 21:15:26 · answer #8 · answered by TheOne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and sick and tired of BEING sick and tired
2006-09-23 17:07:40 · answer #9 · answered by CrazyCatLady 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's up to you to get what you want out of life. Some seek for this until they die... but if you take my advice, you don't need more, you need less.
2006-09-23 18:11:32 · answer #10 · answered by unseen_force_22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋