hey
i really fancied this guy, and told him so and he felt the same way about me...we didnt get together as he was about to go on his gap year for 8 months (hes gone away on that now), but i duno what cud happen with him in future...i've felt kinda down about him since he left and i just told my mates about what happened between us (i didnt before the guy left as he wanted noone to know)
anyway, i also fancied another guy at the same time before i decided i prefered the first guy....
i talked to this other guy last night and now hes taking me out for dinner (belated bday present)....
just wondering if this makes me sound a bit of a slapper, going out with another guy so soon after fancying the first guy, does it sound like i'm on the rebound or what?
i'm not bothered what others think but i do want sum opinions please!!
2006-09-23 09:34:12 · 25 answers · asked by belleoftheball 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no way. look the guy is going off for a year and u are not gonna just be sad for a year feeling guilty if you think of someone else. You need to move on and see other people...I'm sure he will too.
The reason I'm saying this is because you have never been with this guy....you never know after a few dates you might have both realised it wasn't to be. What you need to do is move on and live your life. When he comes back, if you still feel the same way and you are both single then you should definitely give it a go! :) But until then you are young free and single and that's the end of it!
p.s. good luck on your date! :)
2006-09-23 09:40:55 · answer #1 · answered by wicca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the answer is in your question.... you didn't get together with him, therefore he is not your boyfriend. There is nothing wrong with someone else taking you out as long as you don't cheat, and it can't be cheating as you have no bf.
Try this new guy out for bf material - it could only last a few weeks, anyway.
When gap year boy comes back, assess your future with him then, but ask yourself this...why didn't he want anyone else to know about you 2?
2006-09-23 10:43:40 · answer #2 · answered by tspoonteddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slappers sleep around, with no respect for themselves, the men they meet, or sexual health. If this fits you, then sort yourself out! You should however, date as much as you like. Only by doing that will you begin to understand the qualities you need from a partner.
2006-09-23 09:40:00 · answer #3 · answered by yvonne c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah I don't think so, I mean if the first guy is gonna be gone for so long, then you should get to know this other guy. Then if you end up fancying this new guy, then just explain to the first guy what happened. If he gets angry then that's his problem. You got to do what you think is best for you.
2006-09-23 09:38:41 · answer #4 · answered by Azena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound young therefore you should be taking opportunities to meet as many people as you can without the physical contact, this makes you a better rounded person for your future in the real world
2006-09-23 09:38:42 · answer #5 · answered by mohvictor 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
grl do ur thing..cus life is too short n u neva knw watz gonn'a happen if u like or fancy the other guy....go out on a date with him..u dnt knw wat the other one is doing or whether he's 4gotten u...n grl u r just human n uve got weakneses dnt blame urslf no one is perfect leave ur life as happy a s u can knowing ur limits and extremes n itll all be good...good luck
2006-09-23 09:39:30 · answer #6 · answered by lady c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're not tied to anyone so it's good to keep your options open and get to know other people. The other guy is gone for 8 months, I don't think he or anyone else is expecting you to sit around waiting for his return.
2006-09-23 10:58:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no count number how a lot someone wanders interior the streets on the suitable of the day, he returns domicile. warm for couple of minutes yet to marry cute on the suitable of the day. that's a compromise. hand-crafted lentils in case you try menu from outdoors you'll drown in soup.
2016-11-23 17:44:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
since the first guy wasn't your boyfriend you have nothing to feel bad about,there was no commitment made; being able to date different people when you don't have a steady mate is ok
2006-09-23 09:39:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating 2 men, serially at that, does not make you promiscuous in any way.
2006-09-23 09:37:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋