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This may seem odd but it feels like my aunt is always doing something to my butt.

Example
1. I spent the weekend at my aunts house and we were going to go shopping for clothes. She asked what size my pants were but I didn't know so i said i'll go check. she said 'just turn around i'll check quickly' So i turned around and she pull the back of my pants and looked at the tag.

2. she did that again another time, but this time at a department store (Nobody was around thank god).

3. she always taps my butt whenever i walk by and such.

is she obsessed, or just being friendly (the taps??) ??

i just turned 13

2006-09-23 09:29:03 · 10 answers · asked by James S 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Grade-Schooler

10 answers

try talking to your aunt and tell her what you told us if you get nowhere then try talking to your mom. It maybe innocent but to cure your curiosity ask her.

2006-09-23 09:33:08 · answer #1 · answered by Brenda H 2 · 1 0

I don't think she is meaning anything by it, nor is she obsessed with your butt. Is she doing anything else that might seem inappropriate? Does she have kids of her own and does she tap them on the butt? It sounds like you have a close relationship with your aunt if you are shopping together and such, I think she is just being friendly, it's probably her way of showing affection but there's nothing sexual about it. And as far as the tags, she was most likely just looking at the size, not your butt.

2006-09-23 16:33:25 · answer #2 · answered by nimo22 6 · 1 0

Looking at someone's tag on their clothing isn't a come-on. Especially if it is your aunt who is buying you clothing.

She just wants to make sure you are buying the correct size.

The taps are most likely just friendly taps. As you get older, and start to develop more into manhood, she will probably stop the tapping.

Wait awhile to see what happens when you get older. Besides, if you don't like her doing these things, then tell her you don't like being tapped on your butt.

2006-09-23 21:40:04 · answer #3 · answered by Perplexed Princess 2 · 0 0

I agree with the other suggestions that your aunt sees you as a kid and the pat on the rear is just a friendly, innocent "love tap" as one of my family members used to put it. If it makes you uncomfortable, the best thing to do is tell her. I'm sure she'll understand.

2006-09-23 16:45:15 · answer #4 · answered by BethS 6 · 0 0

James, I was looking at your other questions you have posted and I would have to say YOU are the one obsessed with Butts.
Since almost all of your questions and jokes had to do with butts and laxatives. I am guessing at age 13 you are still trying to figure things out. Don't project your feelings on to other people.
Tell her 'hands off' if you don't want to be 'tapped'.

2006-09-24 08:37:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

She probably still thinks of you as a child, aunts are often like that. I'm 47, and still have to give my aunts a hug and a kiss, just like I did when I was 5.

If there is a next time, then just laugh and quietly say to her "Auntie, please don't do that, I'm not a child anymore". Don't make a big thing of it.

However, if it happens after that, then you should have a word with your parents, or a teacher. Get them to talk to her.

2006-09-23 16:34:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

hmm, that does seem peculiar. maybe next time she goes in for a butt pat you could just tell her that that makes you uncomfortable and you would rather her pat your back than your backside. she probably doesn't realize it bothers you. if there is no other funny business going on i doubt it means anything.

2006-09-23 16:38:53 · answer #7 · answered by mypurpleelephant 5 · 1 0

grow up. Your aunt sounds normal to me.

2006-09-23 19:51:56 · answer #8 · answered by toomanycommercials 5 · 0 0

the real question here is... are yu a man???

hahaha well no shes not obbsessed with yur butt.. shes justa whore. shes just being.. "friendly"....

2006-09-24 03:46:27 · answer #9 · answered by Mimi 2 · 0 0

talk to her and if she doesnt stop...call the cops...she could be a molester

2006-09-23 18:40:17 · answer #10 · answered by chicklover_563 2 · 0 0

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