i know it sounds stupid but,i really dunno much about this stuff..
if your guy feels like he wanna make out with you already because you drove him wild and sizzling hot,what will you do? you know yourself that you are not yet ready but feel like doing it at the same time..
how would you be able to avoid unwanted pregnancy? is the use of such protection be applicable to both parties? if so,what should it be then for both?
is or are there any techniques to avoid unwanted preg even when using protection?
last,will there be any changes in the form of your body especially on your hips and bum?
thanks guys,i just dunno how to answer these stuffs for my s** education class..
2006-09-23 09:07:57 · 8 answers · asked by peek-a-boo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so that means that they should just stick to the foreplay thingy then?
2006-09-23 09:14:28 · update #1
You sound rather young so I'm glad you are at least asking about things you don't understand.First off,NEVER be pressured into having sex.You must be absolutely sure you want to because you only have one chance to have a "first time" and it should be special.If your boy friend can't wait or doesn't respect your feelings then he doesn't care for you the way he should.
Always use protection.A condom being the best for pregnancy and from getting STDs (sexually transmitted diseases)
There is no change in the shape of your body. (hips and bum)
If you really aren't sure about sexual things could you ask your Mom about them. Tell her it's for your sex education if you are afraid she may get suspicious about you.Please look into it all before you jump into having sex. It is a big decision and there is no right or wrong age these days.(although I wish young people would wait awhile)You just have to be sure yourself.I wouldn't want you to regret it.
All the best.
2006-09-23 09:32:51 · answer #1 · answered by tea cup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt do it because your having doubts just because your guy says you drive him wild doesnt mean your ready for sex.Use some form of contraception like the pill or definatley condoms as they protect you against sexually transmitted diseases and yes it should be both parties responsability to make sure their protected against unwanted pregnancy. Theres the withdrawal method but that really isnt safe as sperm escape before a man ejaculates.Only if u get pregnant will the form of your body change,or unless your developing as in puberty
2006-09-23 16:46:06 · answer #2 · answered by sharron m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a 15 year old daughter who is sexually active. I am going to tell you like I told her. Do not let anyone force you into anything you feel you are not ready for. If you feel you are ready get some birth control and condoms. Little boys will tell you anything to get the good stuff. But if you feel that he is the one for you then he will wait until you are ready. If he doesn't wait the he isn't worth your time or your body.
2006-09-23 16:19:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always use a condom as this not only helps to prevent pregnancy but will give you both protection against sti/std
2006-09-23 16:12:45 · answer #4 · answered by Jazzymay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even with good contraception you can still get pregnant, the answer is just say no. Beside STDs are rife now and chlamidia can make you infertile.
2006-09-23 16:12:29 · answer #5 · answered by tucksie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him your not ready and if you do use protection dont let him overwhelm you guys will do that sometimes.
since you do not much as your physician and get a book on the subjects you seek knowledge in.
2006-09-23 16:20:24 · answer #6 · answered by concrete water 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy a book about sex and reproduction
2006-09-23 16:09:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
become a lesbian, problem solved
2006-09-23 16:20:37 · answer #8 · answered by davey 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋