everywhere i go i find girls, many who express clear interest in me. PRoblem is they're either smart but ugly as sin, or hotter than hell, but dumber than dirt. I'm 26.. I go on dates all the friggin time...but this phenomenon is getting annoying.
2006-09-23 08:59:00 · 17 answers · asked by markwett 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you want a good looking woman who's also smart, you have to decide whether to start with good looking women and weed out the dim bulbs or start with smart women and weed out the unattractive ones.
I recommend starting out with the smart women. So go to places where smart women hang out: museums, libraries, bookstores and universities. Then try to find a woman who is also physically attractive.
That method should be a lot easier than figuring out one attractive woman at time if a person is intelligent.
If you want to do it online, try a site like DateSmartPeople.com. The majority of women there are smart and you can decide for yourself if they're attractive.
2006-09-25 12:58:47 · answer #1 · answered by cpuvvada 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a good look at yourself!! Are you a "2" or a "9"? It really is true that beauty is inside the person.
I have noticed a lot of men who are 2's think they deserve girls that are 10's. You may have to make a choice about what is most important to you--looks or smarts.
Maybe you need to find girls in a different setting. Try looking where the type of girls you want would hang out. They don't hang out in bars or dance clubs!
2006-09-23 16:04:09 · answer #2 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm right here!
Seriously though, maybe you're being to picky. We do exist! Women can ask the same question about guys too. Think about what you really want in a partner. Maybe take a break from dating. Sometimes you find just what you're looking for when you stop looking. Good luck!
2006-09-23 16:04:06 · answer #3 · answered by BJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're everywhere... just don't look for extremes - like geniuses, or absolute hotties. Look for a good-looking, intelligent girl. I think you're looking too hard for either a super-smart girl, or a super-hot girl, which is why you're having trouble.
2006-09-23 16:09:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try libraries by college's. Usually there is several cutie pies studying. Be polite and approach them slowly. You don't want to creep them out. You might have to try the evening hours...when they have time to study.
2006-09-23 16:09:16 · answer #5 · answered by TurntableKitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can find them at school, library, church, mall, places like that. I am an intelligent good looking young woman who is 34 years old.
2006-09-23 16:00:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u need to stop lookin and juss let it happen i mean the best things in life are unexpected me and my girls realtionship was unexpected i mean hell who new we would end up in love 8 months and still going strong holla
2006-09-23 16:05:13 · answer #7 · answered by shutup_nlisten2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Universities are the typical places,
if it fails leave the matter on the chance and it will sucess.
2006-09-23 16:03:27 · answer #8 · answered by dr_rabiefahoom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aim your sights a little higher; try a more mature fillie...
Just teasing..
2006-09-23 16:01:07 · answer #9 · answered by GiGi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the library.
2006-09-23 15:59:46 · answer #10 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋