ok i had a dance last week and i was danceing with my bf and after the dance stop i went to the bathroom and when i came back my ex-friend who is a @$$ hole was kissing my bf and i broke up with him now he wants me back. should i take him back or find a nother guy.
2006-09-23 08:33:57 · 27 answers · asked by punk_skull 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him to go screw with someone else! Sweetie your not worth him. If he is gonna go around making out with other girls you can find someone who wants to be with you not your ex friends
2006-09-23 08:36:44 · answer #1 · answered by Sen10r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is your ex friend set you up. I bet she had her eyes on your bf all night just waiting for a chance to get to him, so she could get back at you.
I would have a nice long chat with your bf and tell him that you think this time he was set up for it, but you will not let it happen again. He needs to learn how to control himself.
I could forgive him for just one kiss, but any more than that and out the door he would go for good.
2006-09-23 15:41:48 · answer #2 · answered by howdidiknowthat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why you should find a guy if you truly love your bf? Just wait for the right time not grabbing to another situation that will make things worst. I know it seems that it's hard to trust him for that act but how can you prove it if he's not the one who initiated? Talk to him and maybe your a$$hole friend wants to steal your bf! Will you let her win? And why your bf will let you see that he's kissing your a$$hole friend knowing that you're around? Maybe your a$$hole friend grab that opportunity to wreck you relationship. Talk to him to make things clear. And try to ask your closest friend around if they see something unusual.
2006-09-23 16:01:01 · answer #3 · answered by herzae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dont go back he was probably doing it befour anyways hes just an a** just like ur bf there purfect four each other u can find someone better i bet your pretty and smart and any guy will take you but dont let your ex get in your way
2006-09-23 15:44:43 · answer #4 · answered by pinkyswinkys 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow and you just went to the bathroom huh? i wonder what he would do if you werent there at all? Makes you wonder huh? Well if you have to wonder....then he isnt worth wondering for. Trust is very important and if he is kissing other people while you are going to the bathroom for goodness sakes then......i think there is some reevaluating of this so called relationship. You have two choices, ultimately, date him or not......its not rocket science.
2006-09-23 15:38:46 · answer #5 · answered by dlite1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stay single for a while. You'll be way better off. You don't NEED to find another guy right now. You need some time to cool off. Definitely don't go back to that guy.
2006-09-23 15:38:42 · answer #6 · answered by bachlava_9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him, cheating is a habitual nature, if he's done it once it'll happen again, I had a girl cheat on me not once, not twice, but three times before I realized how full of crap she was, your ex will do the same, if he really loved you he would respect you and the realtion ship
2006-09-23 18:55:14 · answer #7 · answered by Michael M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him back, then kiss your ex-******-friend in front of him. Tell him he should have been patient and he could have had you both - then break up with him again!!
2006-09-23 15:37:21 · answer #8 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh heck no girl. You don't even need to ask. If a guy is going to disrespect you like that with your friend nonetheless, you don't even need to consider taking him back. He's a jerk and he deserves that ex-friend of yours. Wish them luck!
2006-09-23 15:39:43 · answer #9 · answered by M.Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He CHEATED on YOU! I would not even consider getting back with him. Once he cheated he broke a trust/trust relationship. There are more fish in the sea and you can do better.
2006-09-23 15:38:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋