I was sposed to go to the Stones this weekend with a girl I've been seeing(who on a side note has been acting wierd since monday when she found out her ex was coming back to town)
anyway what she told me was that her and her mom were going to see her grandmother thats sick...thing is I just ran into a mutual friend and she asked why I wasn't at the Stones with the girl...........guess she went without me, NICE
question is...should I be pissed and say something? or just let the whole thing go and not bother with her or what
anything might help
2006-09-23 08:25:03 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
confront her and dump her is what i would do if i was you
2006-09-23 08:44:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am glad to see you are smart enough to see the writing on the wall. Take it from me, I have been through this crap before. She is dissing you to see if her and her ex can rekindle their relationship. What a convenient time for her grandmother to sick. She is out rocking with her ex at the concert leaving you alone and stoned. Dude, keeping it in and saying nothing is going to only make matters worse. The best thing for you to do is call her out on her lie and let her know you are not stupid. When her boyfriend dumps her again she will come running back to you. If she does I hope you have sense enough to tell her where to go. Peace and God bless.
2006-09-23 08:39:10 · answer #2 · answered by cave man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I wonder how long you have been seeing this girl. Is it platonic or a closer relationship? How do you feel about this girl? Is she someone that you would like to spend the rest of your life with or someone to just pal around with?? I had a very similar situation, and also with a sick grandmother, and I sent Granny a get well card and told her that I was extremely concerned about her health.. Got a letter back, with a what the hell are you talking about? Even though I had known that her ex boyfriend was back in town and had heard that she was seen with him, I wanted to confront her with the Granny evidence. Yeah, that was the end of us, but got some satisfaction...
2006-09-23 08:35:12 · answer #3 · answered by Al s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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They might realize they need you and come crawling back!
If you do get back together, don't let the same issues that destroyed your relationship crop up again. Have a good, long talk about how you're both going to make it right this time.
2015-01-28 11:45:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the mutual friend didn't know her grandmother was sick...wait a minute. Those are big tickets usually sold out. Surely, she would've given you the tickets and said sorry she'll miss it. I'd say yes, you did just get majorly blown off, and yes you should be pissed and say something. Then, go find another girl to start going out with.
2006-09-23 08:29:04 · answer #5 · answered by just browsin 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Give her some time, if she feels that she has to choose, than she will, no matter what you do or say, so it's best not to say anything at all. She will decide what she wants, and you must accept her decision. Don't sweat about it, there are plenty of fish in the sea, she's not the only one you know!Besides, if she is still hung up on that guy, and doesn't bother to treat you right, that she's not worth it!
2006-09-23 08:30:04 · answer #6 · answered by Livia 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sorry, but i think she's over you.
Confront her! u can't let her blow you off like that! tell her what ur mutual friend said, and ask her what's really going on.
This might be a major misunderstanding and your mutual friend might just be spreading lies becuase SHE has a thing for you.
BUT, if she's been acting weird since her ex came back, i'd say confront her. she's prbly just putting off breaking up.
2006-09-23 08:29:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't even give her the time of day. Act as if she is less than insignificant in your social life. If she is going to stoop to subterfuge to avoid going somewhere with you then she is not worth your time at all. She will eventually get hers in the end. Turn your energies and interest elsewhere. Good Luck!
2006-09-23 08:28:39 · answer #8 · answered by cabjr1961 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry, Bra - but you got the shaft, big time. Time to man up and confront her, but don't be stupid and get violent, just ask her why she felt she couldn't be honest with you. Say what you need to say, then turn around and walk away - don't look back.
Good Luck!
Aloha!!
2006-09-23 08:35:21 · answer #9 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, i believe she's blown you off. I've had the same thing happen to me with an old boyfriend...i dumped him. lol. You dont diserve to be treated like that, you should ask her what the he.lls up. (oh, and about my old boyfriend, he told me he was sick and couldn't go double dating with me and my best friend, and said we shouldn't go because then he'll feel left out. so, we said we wouldn't. then at the last minute, we decided to go without him and he was there with another girl. sick huh?!?!) hope i've helped you out.
2006-09-23 08:28:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Next time you see her just walk straight pass...dont even make eye contact...thats the best way to show her your not bothered...or if you are bothered she certainly wont be able to tell.
2006-09-23 08:32:32 · answer #11 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋