You've got a crystal ball and you know that some day she is going to break up with you. If you were able to choose - would you rather that your significant other give you some warning, like let you know when they start to have doubts about the relationship. Or would you prefer to be blissfully ignorant and just have it be a clean break all of a sudden when she made up her mind to move on?
2006-09-23 08:21:26 · 21 answers · asked by pamgissa 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-09-23 08:37:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, I got to straight a few things here:
1. Destiny is something that can be interfered by us mortals. That's how I believe, because to some extent, I have vision about future.
2. I don't crazy about any girl, they're the ones that get crazy about me.
Theoretically speaking in your circumstances, I would just dump the crystal ball and have a relationship with her. I'd rather have faith in someone I cared about than some dead glittering object.
2006-09-23 08:27:57 · answer #2 · answered by septiant 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but if I had a crystal ball and I was just told that she was going to break up with me in the future...well, I would have to break it off right then and there. Why wouldn't anyone do so? I don't want to get emotionally involved with someone knowing she is just going to hurt me in the end. What would the purpose be?
2006-09-23 08:29:49 · answer #3 · answered by Novotny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as a 'clean break'.
If a girl leaves her guy without any warning or good reason, then she will break his heart. And he will have difficulty trusting other women after that.
I think it's the same for women too.
I don't think you would want a guy you are in love with to leave you suddenly and without a good explanation.
Treat others the way you want others to treat you, and you will always end up doing the right thing.
2006-09-23 08:35:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is probably the toughest question I have encountered. I think I want some warning...usually in a relationship there is warning anyway. Not always verbally but you can tell. Damn, none of this blissfully ignorant stuff....relationship is about communication. We gotta communicate girl!
2006-09-23 08:26:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most men in their life go out with several people where there is later a break up. That pain, is just part of life. The only way to avoid it is to marry too young for the wrong reasons.
2006-09-23 08:41:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I KNEW that a woman was going to break up with me I'd never get in the relationship to begin with.
However, if things didn't work out, I'd rather she communicated with me and told me her doubts. Then maybe the two of us could work on it, or maybe not. At least I'd have the shot.
2006-09-23 08:23:14 · answer #7 · answered by Kinzel99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"your significant other give you some warning, like let you know when they start to have doubts about the relationship. "
depends what the doubt is..whether it is it just isnt working out or you do something stupid to change it.
2006-09-23 08:29:22 · answer #8 · answered by mike 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
adult men that act like that are secretly gay. it is also basic as metrosexual, it really is also basic as borderline gay. adult men like that are hiding their authentic selves with a view to conceal their 'freak flag' from the international. yet sometime, they'd lose their inhibitions, and enable their freak flag fly intense. and also you could finally end up being very damage interior the approach.
2016-10-16 01:57:17 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must have no social life at all. Why would you obsess about something that doesn't exist. No wonder you are alone. You take a chance on EVERY relationship that you enter. That's how the game is played. If you can't take the reality of that, then you shouldn't play.
2006-09-23 11:11:29 · answer #10 · answered by Dan B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Part of me wants to know when something is wrong so maybe we can work on a solution together, but the other, dumber part of me wants to ignore it all and just remain peacefully ignorant until she leaves. Nothing lasts forever.
2006-09-23 08:25:37 · answer #11 · answered by Nc Jay 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋