2006-09-23 08:03:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
:) the more u work on urself, the better u will feel. *trust me*.
so having said that, work on:
1) your appearance: work out. exercise. take care of ur body. take care of ur skin. get new haircut. try on new clothes. buy Flattering, stylish clothes, make u feel good and look good.
2) your mind: study. read more. learn more about current events. find a hobby, and excel at it. the more u KNOW, the easier it will be for you to develop your own ways of thinking, as well as be able to TALK w/ others about it.
3) your relationships: as u build ur confidence in urself, and keep in mind to be Open Minded, Non Judgemental to others..... u will be able to speak out more, talk to ur friends, family members, practice talking about anything and everything u are learning, or find out what they are interested in. the more u practice, the easier it will be for u to do that with Strangers, or friends of friends, and not feel as shy...because remember, 1 & 2, u are already working on ur appearance and your brain, so u don't have as much to be "scared" about.
:) good luck...the more Positive attitude u have (remember, u can Always change something if u make a mistake, u can learn from it, u can always grow, and do something different tomorrow), the more opportunity u will have in ur life. confidence will lead to easier job interviews, class discussions, making friends, getting to know teachers, etc etc.... huge impact on ur life. but getting over ur shyness is the first step, and working on ur confidence will help u become less shy.
2006-09-27 05:42:45 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This was the hardest thing i had to overcome. I've been shy all my life until this year. You just gotta talk to people and become friends with SOME popular people but not all you have to fight your shyness and scaredness and get up there and upper your self-esteem and confidence if you dont you will not go anywhere!
2006-09-23 08:06:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you find out let me know. I hate being so shy...I wish I was a lot like my friends. They have so much courage around women.
2006-09-23 08:10:07 · answer #3 · answered by Novotny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cure Social Anxiety Shyness - http://SocialAnxiety.uzaev.com/?guDE
2016-06-21 01:31:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to spot with a lot of people and just sit and watch.
2006-09-23 08:06:03 · answer #5 · answered by clifton_woodruff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you just took the first step if you want some advice im me goodwood707@yahoo
2006-09-23 08:09:23 · answer #6 · answered by SHUG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be shy common
2006-09-23 08:06:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋