Or are you in lust? Have you been confusing that feeling inside with the wrong feling? Have you been lying to yourself this whole time, saying "I love you" when really there is no love there?
2006-09-23 07:58:49 · 15 answers · asked by Dead 2 Self 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, I really love my bf. I also love the sex. Sex is a big part of a sucessful relationship. At least it is for me. Please me or I'm not happy in my relationship.
2006-09-23 08:02:32 · answer #1 · answered by One Sly Look 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When this is the situation- when I can't tell if I'm in love or lust- I ask myself- would I still want to be friends with this person if I KNEW there could be no sex? If the answer is truly yes, then love, if no, then lust.
And no, I haven't been lying to myself, but I've been lying to him. I tell him I love him not to hurt his feelings, but truly, I just want to devour him in bed.
2006-09-23 08:00:59 · answer #2 · answered by Genevieve 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, thats what I asked myself two years ago. i really felt like this was the person that I loved.He was my everything. Talking to him was so easy. He made me laugh. He made me feel good about being me. I thought maybe it was just because the sex was good. But now, three years later, i learned that i was testing myself to see if i did really love him and i passed. I cant live a day without him and we just celebrated our 3 year anniversary. So yes, i love him. With all of my heart.
2006-09-23 08:02:28 · answer #3 · answered by dat_gurl_dot03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love my husband he is the most loving kind and considerate man. I appreciate all he does for me and wouldn't trade him for anyone in the world. I met him when I was 46 so we aren't new to this relationship stuff. We both had bad marriages before we met and I think thats why we love and honor each other so much
2006-09-23 08:02:11 · answer #4 · answered by bramblerock 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I confused love and lust twice and loved twice. Thats 2loves 2 lusts. Im in love now with my last love, This is real, I know i mean it.
2006-09-23 08:00:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have confused them in the past . It is possible to do so. But the guy I am with , I really do love him. The feeling I have for him is so much different and so much stronger than I had for past guys who I "thought" I was in love with. I find myself praying for him more than I pray for my self. When I am around him my heart starts to melt. When we are apart even if its for 2 mins, I find myself thinking about him always.
2006-09-23 08:32:40 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ Army Wife ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care about us and what we do ? The important question is what you do .. if you are trying to figure out if you are in love or in lust .. only you know that in your heart. Good Luck ! :)
2006-09-23 08:00:34 · answer #7 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm both in love and in lust with him.
2006-09-23 08:00:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in love with my wife. I lust after her as well. That is appropriate.
02530 chamad {khaw-mad'}
a primitive root; TWOT - 673
AV - desire 11, covet 4, delight 2, pleasant 1, beauty 1, lust 1,
delectable things 1; 21
v
1) to desire, covet, take pleasure in, delight in
1a) (Qal) to desire
1b) (Niphal) to be desirable
1c) (Piel) to delight greatly, desire greatly
n f
2) desirableness, preciousness
2006-09-23 14:02:44 · answer #9 · answered by Jack 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my first marriage that was the case. I this marriage I could not see my world with out her.
2006-09-23 08:04:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋