OK... a 20 year old girl likes a 28 year old guy? Is this something that happens alot? Yes some say that age doesnt matter. But what do you think? I have heard of others dating older or young and are very happy.... please give me some input...
2006-09-23 07:56:25 · 23 answers · asked by duh..... 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so younger girls like older guys for the same reason most older guys like younger woman.it makes them feel something they are lacking or wanting. with older guys likeing younger girls its usually due to the fact that guys are less mature so pairing with a younger girl makes sense . or maybe they are in denial of there age and want to feel younger and have a beautiful young girl on there arm.girls in a similar way want to be with someone more mature not only because girls mature faster than guys but it makes the relationship feel more worth while when someone is experienced and takes it seriously while younger guys are more immature and just wanna have fun usually. it also feels nice to have a sense of security because older men usually are ready to settle down and dont tend be as immature or wild and tell you they love you one day and cheat on you the next. so theres many reasons why people date older or younger- security, spontaneity, common associations, makes them feel how they wanna feel or there going down the same path so why not have a partner to do it with.or maybe they just like each other for who they are! i think its ok depending on the range of age. there both in there 20's they are pretty much at the same level of morals and life experiences so one is not just taking advantage of the other. now late 20's and 18 is pushing it! the 18 year old is new to the game or naive.
2006-09-23 08:22:42 · answer #1 · answered by mizztaunib 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maturity is a big enough incentive. Or they just really like each other. I once dated someone older than me by eight years and we were very happy. We are still great friends today. And age really doesn't matter. Wouldn't it be stupid if you're throwing away a great relationship if the person you're dating happened to be eight yrs older or younger than you are?
2006-09-23 15:03:03 · answer #2 · answered by M.Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women wants an older guy thinking he is more experienced . Alot of girls want the "older guy" because they need someone to take care of them , they feel safer with an older guy ,and they think an older guy is more mature. I am 25 and my man is 21 , and in my opinion he is better than the older guys I was with in the past.
2006-09-23 15:36:09 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Army Wife ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because girls are GENERALLY more mature for their age, so girls date older men for that reason. It's a also a stability thing. Older men generally have better jobs, and can support their women better than a younger man. Older men are generally less concerned about juvenile things as well, such as how many guy friends she has.
2006-09-23 14:59:25 · answer #4 · answered by Kinzel99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because everybody say that if a girl is 20 she acts like she is 20 9(mostly) and if she dates a guy who is 20- he acts like he is 3 years behind. Thats why they want to date older guys so they can be at least ate the same level...
2006-09-23 15:01:57 · answer #5 · answered by Ashlee_Hbiba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Older guys tend to have the resources and maturity to make younger women feel more secure and comfortable. Also, women mature earlier than men and many younger women just find younger men boring.
2006-09-23 14:58:11 · answer #6 · answered by Dane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea this happens but not too often
the simple reason is that girls prefer much more matured and responsible male
so if they find a guy with these qualities thye go fro them
it all depends on the two whether they care about their relation if yes then theyyll see to it that nothing goes wrong
2006-09-23 15:00:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a maturity thing...you young guys will never understand because it is all about P_U_S_S_Y for you!
Don't get me wrong here, older men want that too but they just know how to get it better than the younger guys...it's called experience
2006-09-23 14:59:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We're more mature then these lil kids there age. thats why a 18 yr old will run to a 21 yr old on her b-day.
2006-09-23 14:59:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know i cant really get on girl that is younger then me but bunch of older girls start hitting on me and believe me when i say i am not complaining
2006-09-23 15:01:15 · answer #10 · answered by SuperSonic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋