2006-09-23 07:29:04 · 14 answers · asked by Josiee (: 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How long have you known this guy? I assume both of you have talked before.
From a guy's perspective I would start out talking about a common subject and then tell him that this weekend you didn't have plans and ask him what he was doing.
2006-09-23 07:32:20 · answer #1 · answered by Sal G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I rather ask the girl out, but wouldn't mind if a girl I was interested in did same. Why don't you see if he is interested in you? Do you see him looking at you? Maybe not, but talk with him and find out what he is like. That's always the first key. They have to know you're alive first. LOL.
The rest is nerves, and if you're nervous stay nervous but try to remain calm. Above all, don't try to be someone you're not.
There really is no black or white answer because someone may not be interested in you at first, but yet they find something about you when they get to know you a bit.
2006-09-23 07:47:37 · answer #2 · answered by callahan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile. Ask when you are not within earshot or view of his buddies or your girlfriends. Make sure you leave some room for a graceful decline. Ask him if he would like to do something specific on a specific date. If he turns you down by saying he has plans. Offer to change the date. If he turns you down twice, I would back off.
2006-09-23 07:32:15 · answer #3 · answered by united9198 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depense alot on the guy. Feel him out. Don't look to hard for signs of interest that you misread things that aren't there. Don't be to pushy and upfront or that might be intimidating. Suggest hanging out kinda casually, but doing something together but 2 of you alone so he knows you are interested.
2006-09-23 07:35:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask him right away!!! See if he like being around u and then when u have a moment alone with him, just ask tell him u would like to see him again if possible
2006-09-23 07:32:22 · answer #5 · answered by Eric MD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about I have two tickets to see a movie but my friend can't come...do you want to join me?
It has merit because if he says no it's not like you'll feel embarrased because you haven't technically asked him out so to speak.
2006-09-23 07:33:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him get to know him go out on a you him date laugh talk interact but be your self dont be all nervous your trying to impress just be your self when you think its the right time to ask him out you say it "would you go out with me" and igf you wooed him over with your personality he cant say no what guy could say no to a fun, funny, caring, women none of them can!
2006-09-23 07:35:26 · answer #7 · answered by honeybun_so_sweet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't just ask a guy like that..first you have to be friends and then be like "do you like to hang out this weekend" and then find out what he likes and after that, soon, he'll ask you out. but if he doesn't then just be like "you want to go out with me??"
2006-09-23 07:33:33 · answer #8 · answered by iloveducks_99 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just ask him to go out with u. if he rejects, dont get upset, there will be another guy
2006-09-23 07:35:57 · answer #9 · answered by ashean' 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming you have some contact with him (if not develop it), "Oh, i have to go to the mall, or where ever, do you want to come". Have a coke and see what happens.
2006-09-23 07:33:35 · answer #10 · answered by DrB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋