i like 4 different guys and i don't know what to do. The 1st guy is one of my friends and he already has a gf(whose my bff) but he likes me. The 2nd guy is another one of my best friends and the whole school thinx we make a cute couple but i don't think he likes me. the 3rd guy is from another school but we make contact by email and i don't like him as much but i don't want to hurt him becuase he's my bff. and the last guy likes me and i like him but he's younger than me. we also communicate by email and he thinks we're going outbut we're not. i don't want to go out with him bcause he doesn't like to hug and kiss and that's a big negative. I DON"T KNOW WHO TO CHOOSE!!!! HELP!!!
2006-09-23 07:24:29 · 16 answers · asked by nobody 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok here is my opinion, forget the first guy. He is already in a relationship and he probably just thinks of you as a good friend. There is a good chance you are mistaking his intentions. Forget the third guy, you said you don't really like him, no need to go even further. So this leaves you with two guys. The younger guy is probably just not confident enough to be in a relationship (I am not sure how old you are, but many young guys care too much about macho image and their reputation, thus don't like to show emotion in front of others. Give him some time) As for the guy who you think doesn't like you, well he maybe just waiting for you to make the first move. Show him that you are interested and see where it goes. It's your decision, just remember. Make sure you are happy with yourself before you start dating, relationships often complicate things.
2006-09-23 07:32:27 · answer #1 · answered by Alex Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound REALLY CONFUSED, girl.
But what the question again??
You dont need to be a Rocket Scientist to figure out the answer.
From what you just said, I think 'Neighter' is the answer you need.
Because, none of them are the right ones for you. You either lve the wrong guy or you are wrongly in love with the right guy.
This is also known as 'infatuation'.
Did you mention you are still in a school??????
Dont you have other things to concentrate on, like studies, getting a career while it really matters!!!!
Move on, and you will find a better match. You have a long way ahead of you. So fret not, Been in a relationship is VERY time consuming, why I say this, because I have prayed for a relationship and when I got, sapped all my energy.
'Live life in your own terms' you will realise the value of this adage a little later on in life.
All the best gurl
2006-09-23 14:37:02 · answer #2 · answered by stillfreezing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st guy.. big no no... he's going out with your BFF?? If she find outs, your friendship is toast. best wait and see if they break up, and then wait some more, because she may not be over him!
2nd guy - bf or BF? best friend or BOYFRIEND? I have never known a relationship that ever worked out because they were friends first and then boyfriends. Just because you like him, doesnt mean that you have to STOP likeing him.. if he starts to like you - tell him from the get go... "i know where best friends... but whatever happens, we will always be friends first - right?!" and stick to it. If you break up, then make it work, talk to him right after. You may not like the fact that you are breaking up, but if you act like an adult, and talk your way out of it, it will be much better in the end.
3rd guy - you can talk to him... sure... if you make contact only by email, ask him if he likes you - its much better than face-to-face. Your asking HIM if he likes you - not telling him that you like him.. he doesnt know... find out first off, then you'll know what to do better.
4th guy - Tell him straight up and be honest, that you dont like him that way... tell him maybe at first you thought you did, but you dont.
Honesty is the best thing... but in the end... listen to your heart. but stay away from the BFF boyfriend its bad news.
2006-09-23 14:35:05 · answer #3 · answered by Kassie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep being friends with them til you're sure what to do. Time will let you know which is the one for you. Maybe it's none of them. You said you don't think the 2nd guy likes you but you like him so you should try to find out if he does. Don't let another girl take him from you maybe you have to tell him you like him and see how he reacts.
2006-09-23 14:30:34 · answer #4 · answered by MAMA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick the one that seems like he likes u the most just don't pick the one that already if dating someone or ur bf. The one that goes to a different school sounds like the best choice, good-luck!
2006-09-23 14:27:00 · answer #5 · answered by elise(= 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was you i would take the second one i think you guys would be a good couple but if he doesn't work out then i would go gourd the fourth one. He sounds like he really likes you. just try him out . Then decide wich one you like.
2006-09-23 14:35:14 · answer #6 · answered by Chelsea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stupid question. How the heck could we help you choose a guy when you can't decide. We haven't met them!
2006-09-23 14:27:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you a hoochi mama? u already have a bf and are considering dating other guys? You seem to be leading everyone on....silly tart!
2006-09-23 14:27:23 · answer #8 · answered by sweetie p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
date all of them at the same time
2006-09-23 14:25:47 · answer #9 · answered by John 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think guy # 2! is the best choice!
2006-09-23 14:28:08 · answer #10 · answered by .aNdY:) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋