Ive been with my g/f for almost 7 months now and the only thing we've done is foreplay. No oral or sex. Im not going to pressure her but i want to try some new things with her. What should I do?
2006-09-23 07:15:01 · 14 answers · asked by brian h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Demand sex from her. You have to show women who is the boss or they will belittle you and treat you like a sniveling coward.
2006-09-23 07:18:21 · answer #1 · answered by The Dark Lord 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you anyway? 8??
There are like a gazillion things you can do in leiu of sex.
Shop, A warm bath, massage, Candle light dinner, bowling (sports) and the list could go on. Go do this and let me know how things are going.
To start off, I think you should talk to her, this way, she will also feel special that you are paying attention to her needs and that are concerned about her pleasure.
And in the meanwhile, heres a tip, GROW UP. Sex aint everything.
Trust me. I have been there and done that.
2006-09-23 14:25:33 · answer #2 · answered by stillfreezing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she really means anything to you, be patient. Things fated to happen will do so in due time. Seven months is not that long, especially if you hope to know her for a long while. Concentrate on strengthening and growing the other parts of your relationship. The rest will fall into place . . .
2006-09-23 14:22:10 · answer #3 · answered by alchemist0750 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's right, you can't pressure her. but 7 months isn't long enough. i mean not long enough for you to prove that even if she gets pregnant, you'd stay with her. you just have to wait, wait, how old are you because if you're like 15 or something then i don't think you should be thinking about having sex with your 7 month gf but if you're like 20-30 then as i said, 7 months isn't long enough.
2006-09-23 14:18:13 · answer #4 · answered by iloveducks_99 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, if you care about her and love her at all, you will have no problem staying at her pace. If you rush her, she might dump you. I would if I was being pressured. Talk to her about it. If she's not ready, then she's not ready. Be patient.
2006-09-23 14:21:25 · answer #5 · answered by Karma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brian , Brian , that is the wrong attitude you should want to pleasure her and in return she may let go to 3rd base. So be prepared
2006-09-23 14:20:12 · answer #6 · answered by Ms New Booty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to the movies, go on a hike, go bowling, etc.....How old are you? Kissing is nice and enough, even for adults. Don't jump into anything unless you're old enough and it's really love.
2006-09-23 14:19:43 · answer #7 · answered by Lioness 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if she comes to your house than dim the lights and light some candles and make her strippe say its really fun.lol
2006-09-23 14:17:34 · answer #8 · answered by Minty 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she's waiting for you to ask her..... You should definitely talk to her about it
2006-09-23 14:22:15 · answer #9 · answered by Foxxy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can either ask her or you can wait for her to initiate it.
2006-09-23 14:20:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋