ok, i hope this will be the last time i post about this...i met someone online a few months ago...k stop yelling...hes my age, we hit it off, his sisters place is not far away we met a month ago and went out the whole weekend...everything was cool and he was in hot pursuit always calling/sending texts...then he failed his dental board exams right after he totalled his car...the messages stopped...i caught him online...i asked him if he was ok...finally he pretented to be his sister and said that he was in the hospital in a coma! i was like wtf...he then said that was the best story he could come up with and that he just wants everyone to leave me the f*** alone. he was always talking bf about having a lot of pressure on him...this is not like him...hes gotten mad before and he'll always kind of go away for awhile and cool off but never anything weird like this. should i just delete him off of messenger and move on or try to be here as a friend. was he just getting rid of me?
2006-09-23 07:14:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just to add something...after that happened i said look (cause i know he can get real depressed) let me type and u just listen...he said he had to go but would leave the chat window open...so i typed for like 20 min just telling him i understand and that im here...i know for a fact he sat there and read it and then signed off when i was done...he then read an email i sent and went to visit my site on an area like myspace...just like 2 days ago we were planning to meet again in nov and he was so excited to bring me back stuff from his vaca to another country in dec...im a little eccentric too and we kinda understand eachother but i wouldnt pull something like this
2006-09-23 07:35:45 · update #1
You should keep trying until you get what you want.
2006-09-23 07:16:23 · answer #1 · answered by The Dark Lord 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Poor guy... he's had a lot of negative things happen in his life lately. While it's totally unacceptable for him to treat you the way he has, he's obviously needing some space as he deals with the difficulties in his own life. It sounds like he's slipping into depression. If you're friends with his sister, it would probably be ok to let her know that you're worried that he needs some help. At that point, you've done what you can, and it's time for you to back out of the situation. If he wants to contact you again when he has his stuff together, then you can decide if you want to have a relationship at that point (but I wouldn't sit around waiting for him to call... I'm thinking you could do better than that.)
2006-09-23 07:20:07 · answer #2 · answered by daisy99 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WOW this is bad. Sounds like he needs to grow up OR he might have a secret life that no one is telling you about. Like another gf, married, or something in that nature. And now he is feeling guilty about everything. But then again he might need some space for awhile. So just leave him alone and ignore him and if it was meant to be he will come back :)
Good Luck!
2006-09-23 07:17:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have already answered your own question. He was in a car accident and failed his dental board exams. He needs time to himself right now. Leave him alone and if he wants to find you he knows where you are.
2006-09-23 07:17:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well it is quite rude and noobish of him for inventing such stuff, but if he is REALLY is going by some rough time, you should try to help him but if he really wants you to leave him for reasonble reasons then move on. Those type of people are nubs.
2006-09-23 07:18:42 · answer #5 · answered by Snow surfer 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
back off for a while, let him make first move to get in touch with you , and if he never dose then you need to move on with your life , some ppl would rather ignore you and hope you go away, than to be up front and honest about a situation
2006-09-23 07:19:29 · answer #6 · answered by Sheena 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think he was trying to get rid of you.Just leave him alone..he sounds the type who isn't worth your time..Good Luck finding other guys!
2006-09-23 07:17:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
lol. The guy told you he was in a coma!! Lol.
Some people just cant take a hint, huh?
2006-09-23 07:17:33 · answer #8 · answered by Ozone 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he isn't into you. Guys lie all the time to get what they want
2006-09-23 07:20:39 · answer #9 · answered by ky_school_teacher 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let him be. He doesn't handle being down well.
Not my type of b/f, or someone you share yourself
with.
2006-09-23 07:27:32 · answer #10 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋