Please read this and answer .a bit of ur time and patience .. Only honest replies?

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Please read this and answer .a bit of ur time and patience .. Only honest replies?
THIS..MY FRIEND RECEIVED A PHONECALL FROM A STRANGER SAYING THAT HE IS HER SILENT ADMIRER.HE STARTED talking all nasty things with her about her physical traits and started making lewd comments on her body parts and his own private parts telling how big ...When she snapped back he told her that he is sorry for being rude and that he had never met a girl like her before and that he is a good boy .He also made a statement that if she thinks he is in love with her body then she is highly mistaken as love is something else.. He can get the body any where in the market .He banged the phone ,saying he will call which he never did..HOW DO U PERCEIVE THIS SITUATION , U FEEL THAT THE GIRL IS TO BE BLAMED for this insult ,verbal talk ?WHAT COULD BE THE PSYCHE OF THE CALLER AND WHAT DO YOU THINK he feels for her.Does he love her ? My friend SUSPECTS a NEIGHBOR WHO KEEPS A TRACK OF HER AND KEEPS FOLLOWING

Answer 1

First off, it is usually somebody that she knows but never notices. It can be a fellow friend of a family member that is around all the time, or anyone that is associated with the family that has seen her and knows a bit about her.

Secondly, if it is somebody like that, take it all with a grain of salt and a big amount of Humor.

Best thing here is to rattle that person's cage much like he has rattled your friends. Plunge into humor bigtime here and really use everything you have to make him so embarassed that he will run home to his mother crying in tears.

Taking this serious is too much when you think about it. This is one situation where the person is really just poking fun here and that should be returned in a big way that he won't expect it would.

It is very easy to trace phone calls too. This can easily be found out when you send a message out to everyone you know that will know this person.

It if is a complete stranger, don't react at all. That is what they want you to do... be afraid, fearful, and most of all afraid to leave the house knowing that someone out there is a nutcase. Best just don't let it fizz on you. Sooner or later that person will wonder why your acting normally and don't react and then make the fatal mistake of presenting themselves to you... then you catch him bigtime.

Answer 2

i doubt the girl is to blame for this, if she led him on in anyway then she still doesn't deserve this. obscene behavior in any way is not acceptable. the fact he hasn't called again is a good sign it indicates he was just trying to get a reaction from her , it failed so maybe that was all it took for him to stop.He will not be in love with her at all, obsession and love are two totally different issues. he does not sound obsessed either or he would have continued these calls.If it is her neighbor then she needs to keep an eye on that situation and make sure she doesn't give out any mixed signals. Did she not recognize the voice as been her neighbors?.if this happens again then she should report it to the police. make a not of the date it happened the first time and if indeed he calls again then listen more carefully this time, listen for an accent or background noise, anything that sounds familiar perhaps. Certain words that he uses, maybe that you have not heard before. hope this helps,

Answer 3

I think you need to have the number traced, get a PI if thats possible.
Did you say he didnt call after that incident?? Well I think whoever the person is just trying to wreck the peace of your pal.
Ask a family member to follow your neighbour when you are followed.
Also inform the cops, they have special departments that deal with incidents like this.
He is a plain jack and obviously a Stalker.
I dont know why you think your friend should be blamed??!!!!!!
Without a shadow of a doubt i think it is one of her former boyfriend or his pal who is playing this wicked mind games.
Get professional help is all i can say. Dont let this continue, nip it at the bud and you wont get caught in a vicious cycle.
All the best and God Bless.

Answer 4

Your friend needs to know that this is in no way her fault. I'm guessing that this person is just trying to get some sort of sick jollies. And the only person he loves seams to be himself. If she doesnt have *67 on her phone or caller ID she needs to. I would also tell her to call the police so that there is some sort of a record on this, just incase. Keep her eyes open and DOORS locked. Good luck

Answer 5

He doesnot love her at all because respect is the first condition for love. If he doesnot care abt the body then y he was being nasty to her. He was just a spoilt man with dirty mind and was just doing the same as cheap people do. Girl can be blamed if she is too open and wear vulgor dresses. She should be now more careful towards herself as the condition can be even more serious next time.

Answer 6

No not the girls fault. That would freak me out. I would have the call traced. (in which can be done by the phone company) then call the cops and have the cops give the caller a visit and get a restraining order on him!!!!

Answer 7

I think your friend should report this call to her parents who should in turn inform the police. He sounds like a freak. What she should have done is hang up on him in the first place and not keep the conversation going. He will take that as meaning she likes it.

Answer 8

El Freako Royale!

Answer 9

just ask your friend to stay away from the suspected neighbour. iit's a case of ---"ulta chor kotwal ko daante" . he's a pervert& maybe a psycho. if he loved her(as he says?) -- why did deliver a speech on human anatomy (male& female),, ?? he is just playing with her emotions... .. certainly you should know it is easier for a man to say ----i love you to a woman , than describe human body....& NO the girl is NOT TO BE BLAMED. ok he is trying to hook her up, dont let your friend become his victim..

Answer 10

I think the guy on the phone is a physco and your friend should report that call to police.