my boyfriend is 18 years old and im like 15 we never had sex and we are together for about 7 months. he sais he loves me and that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me but he used to date my best friend for a week and that realy turns me off. how should i handle this? (i am totaly in love with him)
2006-09-23 06:57:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It couldn't have turned you off too much if you got with him anyway. What is the question?
2006-09-23 07:01:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, take your time falling in love. He will be or is already out of school, while your still in school. There are more guys to get to know and you shouldn't spend all your time thinking of this one guy. Live your life and enjoy these years you have left being a teenager. Because once you get into your twenties you will be making adult decisions. When looking for Mr. Right, make sure he respects you and your family. That he will be able to support you and that he is not some low life looser trying to use you or depends on you to bring home the bacon. I'm glad you haven't had sex either. Because the day you do he'll probably leave you. Take Care of your self and remember your only young for a season, after high school life seems to jump to fifth gear and their is no turning back time.
2006-09-23 14:10:31 · answer #2 · answered by Starla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sweetie at the age of 15 you're stresssing over too much. You're young and you're gonna go through alot of things at this point in your life, and one of it may be testing to see if your true friends are really your friends. But if you really love this boyfriend of yours, ignore and get over the fact that he used to be involved with your best-friend. That is in the past and a real woman never dwells on the past. Especially if you're the man's trophy now and further more...IS HIS FUTURE!!
2006-09-23 14:02:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has been dating with some other gal then he is simply a liar. Ask ur best friend abt him and their relationship. U r too young so avoid sex and try to concentrate on ur studies.If he turns out to be flirt then it would be more painful than anything.
2006-09-23 14:03:21 · answer #4 · answered by RK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
15? Just be carefull, you could get him in alot of trouble. I would take things as they come, dont force the issue.. as far as your friend? a week? that doesnt count as anything, i wouldnt wory about it... seriously though... in 10 years you will regret having sex at such a young age... it seriously is a waste. What if you dont end up with him, and you have all these dudes under your belt when you meet your future hubby... i'd save it... really, dont rush anything...... believe me
2006-09-23 14:04:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur to young to be thinking about spending the rest of yo life with anyone,and so what if they wasn't in luv then what's the problem?
2006-09-23 14:03:36 · answer #6 · answered by sexyblakk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont trust a 18 year old
2006-09-23 13:59:45 · answer #7 · answered by mr. political 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't open your legs up until you are at least 20
2006-09-23 14:00:17 · answer #8 · answered by Gez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah find someone your own age most these guys just want one thing and thats sex just find someone your own age
2006-09-23 14:02:32 · answer #9 · answered by brownbeads 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore it. So he dated another girl you know...he is with you now.
2006-09-23 14:00:04 · answer #10 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋