All i think about is, having a little girl to complete my family. Ive thought of names and even have a major habit of window shopping pink things. We have decided not to have another child, due to expenses, yet i keep on getting broody.
2006-09-23 06:55:09 · 17 answers · asked by lonely as a cloud 6 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Hi. I don't think it is a question of "stopping" yourself. Why would you? If you did, you would simply be hanging up on a phone call you are trying to make to yourself. Instead, pick up the phone. Get the message. Having a baby is on your mind. Make a plan to talk about that. Spend some time asking yourself all of the practical questions about it. Don't run from feelings, turn and embrace them. They will either grow stronger because they are grounded in reality, or, they will float away for another time.
2006-09-23 06:59:46 · answer #1 · answered by Isis 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm exactly same,i have a little boy and feel so broody 4 a girl.although i love my little boy to bits i always want one of each sex.i would be happy if i was blessed with another baby that was a boy,(as we have no control of the sex)but would like to have a girl,we cant have anymore children yet until we move as we live in a 1 bedroom top floor flat and i don't have the room 4 my son,got no chance if i have another baby lol.there is nothing really you can do to stop the way you feel,as even if you were rich,you cant cant choose the sex!
i say just enjoy the family you got,and rem there are so many people in the world who cant have children.
that's wot i do!
2006-09-23 11:17:23 · answer #2 · answered by yummy_mummy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put it his way if u had another boy the expense thing would not be solved and u would still be dreaming bout havin a girl, i would like to afford a mortgage and foreign holidays but it aint guna happen! be greatful for what u have (i know it sounds harsh) but its reality uve know way of knowin ud have a girl anyway so maybe focus on something else xxx
2006-09-23 14:36:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
my husband helped me with my broodiness he got me a puppy ,costs money yes but not as much .
but i had 2 boys and decided to try again and got a girl but my mate who wants a boy has 5 girls no boy and still wants to try you could think of it like that .
2006-09-23 06:59:45 · answer #4 · answered by Nutty Girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not just stay in fanstasyland for a while longer then have a child maybe later when you have saved up. I have just weaned my one year old and am deciding what to do next.
2006-09-23 07:07:30 · answer #5 · answered by Mai C 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing you can do to stop yourself wanting another baby, you've just got to be sensible if you have decided that it's not possible to have another one. I have wanted to have another one since my son was little but we can't finacially until he is at school, so I know what you are going through.
2006-09-23 07:00:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
are u a god mother to a girl, just enjoy spoiling her??? or just have a niece, well maybe u could try doing the lotto more often that way if u win it u can have about ten girls lol
2006-09-23 06:58:54 · answer #7 · answered by MissElection 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have achat with ur partner if u both thing it is the right thing to do then go 4 it ,if not try enjoy the kids that u have
2006-09-23 07:31:27 · answer #8 · answered by Wendy B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know you should feel blessed already if you have other children because THEY are your blessing .....as far as wanting a girl only god knows and of course your husbands or boyfriends sperm decides that anyway ..lol..cheer up and if its ment to be than it will happen ...good luck !
2006-09-23 07:00:43 · answer #9 · answered by stormy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
remember the sleepless nights the money they cost and the mess they make oh and dont forget the endless nappies
2006-09-23 07:09:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋